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about sex.. no negative responses please!
Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for over two years,we want to have unprotected sex this weekend. Don't tell me its not safe because I already no all about that. but if we do decide to, what are some major precautions to take. Like I said even if we don't id like the advice for future reference
thank you.
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Two years would be considered a long-term relationship, and while all of the grownups will tell you to have protected sex, they are busy avoiding it if they can. I give you credit for using protection all of this time, and seriously considering the options beforehand. Number one, you should go on the pill, but that won't have taken effect by this weekend. The Plan B/morning after pill will keep you from getting pregnant, which seems like the major concern. Don't bother with the pull out method-after all, what's the point of unprotected sex if he's going to have to pull out, not to mention it doesn't work. A pharmacist should be able to give you better information about Plan B or morning after. Also, there are sponges with spermacide on them, foams, and other products in the condom aisle, but I can't recommend them because I have never used them. They all seem pretty messy, though. The pharmacist should be able to offer the best option.
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Firstly you need to ask yourself why you want to have unprotected sex... Secondly, if you're even CONSIDERING it you need to go NOW to get birth control. It doesnt work right away so you must not have unprotected sex for (usually) two weeks after you start taking the pill (or others, it varies).
I'll just say, i prefer sex without a condom, but im in a long term relationship and i got my boyfriend tested for STI's before we hit the sack without a rubber.
Go see your doctor. He or she will put you on the pill, and as long as you're taking it everyday you 'should' be pregnancy free... As far as STI's go, perhaps get your boyfriend tested (and yourself so he doesnt feel like you're attacking him) first!
Good luck.
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Well, yes, it is very dangerous. But you have to consider the risks. You may become pregnant or get an STD, which you will be stuck with for the rest of your life. What I dont understand is what is the difference between unprotected sex and protected? What's it gonna matter if you use birth control and/or a condom? It doesn't change the experience. But if you really want this, I would consider first, talking with your boyfriend and asking him, honestly, if he has any STD's. And if you still deside to go on with it, go to a pharmacy and get Plan B after you have sex. It will prevent you from getting pregnent. But you have to get it in the 24 hours after. And then you may want to get tested. That's my advice. Hope I helped:)
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Precautions so you don't get pregnant??? Um, either have protected sex or get on the pill, which you can get from your doctor I believe. The pull out method does not work. And remember, even with a condom or the pill, there's still a 1% chance you could get pregnant. It doesn't sound like much, but you'd be suprised. Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
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i don't get it... do you want to get pregnant? what kind of precautions? do you mean you're using the pull-out method?
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