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Dating for how long....
Okay...well I've been dating this wonderful guy....*Mark* for 4 months now..and we haven't even made out. Yeah..sounds pathetic I know, but we cuddle and hug and you know...it's nice, but I just can't bring myself to make the first move..I'm so shy and so is he...HOW...help please
How the heck do I just know when to make out with him
Driving me nutsss
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You know, when you're cuddling, snuggle really close to him and look at him in the eye, just start moving forward. He SHOULD get the message. If not, he's retarded lol. But dont force it. Just cause everyone else kisses, doesn't mean you have to feel pressured. Maybe it's because what you guys have isn't like what everyone else has. It will happen when it's supposed to happen.:)
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Miss Going Nut's,
My advice for you is to, ask him plain out,
Why Won't you Make out with me?
I saw this on a Even Stevens Episode.
LMAO. lol when Ren & Bobby were dating almost 7 mOnths with NO smOOChaROo's haha...
Miss MANDA lEE!
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Please don't listen to the Hitch advice. Good movie, but come on now.
Just go for it. One of you has to make the move, and why not you? A lot of guys like it when the girl makes the first move-- it takes the pressure off of him. You've got nothing to lose by going for it, even if it's disastrous you can just laugh about it. By now you must be comfortable with him, so just make the move!
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JUST DO IT! thats all i can say. I use to be just like you but i am..well.....uhhh..not now
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You guys don't have to rush into doing it, but since you both are shy you are expecting one another to make a move. I went out with a guy that was soo shy, and I didn't really force him to do anything lol. There is really nothing wrong with a girl making a move first. Guys like that a lot better. You can also try talking to him about this. It's really nothing to be shy to talk about. When you guys are together or cuddling just make a move. Trust me, it's much better then you think. He will get more conftrable around you. Just take your time. :)
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Het a friend to tell him that you wana make out w/ him! lol, trust me it will work! :D
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I dated a guy for two weeks and we haden't even held hands yet. He was shy and so was i so i know exactly how you feel! Well, one thing that i can tell you is to talk to him about it. And look at the signs he gives you when ya'll cuddle. If ya'll both look at each other at the same time, then make the move! Let things move slowly though...don't force it, just do it when the time is right.
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well if i were you, i'd say take your time lol. its hard to find a nice guy like that. he sounds like a keeper. but if you really really want to kiss him, whenever you guys say goodbye or hes leaving your house or vice versa, just lean in and give him a kiss and i guarentee not long after that, it will lead to making out. good luck
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It's good that it's taking a long time. You might not see it, but if you rushed into it you guys would eventually get bored of it. Don't underrate the power of cuddling :-)
don't make the first move...he's a GUY he's going to do it eventually...you just have to wait and open the opportunity (be somewhere alone w/ him)
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I definatley know how that goes. I had a boyfriend liek that before. Talk to him about it and see what he thinks. It might feel awkward but it will be worth it. If you want to just go for the first move, when he kisses you just hold it longer.. and see what happens! good luck!
xO
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