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So there's this guy at school and I like him a LOT. I mean like I like him so much that he's all I ever think about. I want to ask him out but I don't really know how. I mean I don't want to walk up to him and be like, "Hey Peter do you want to go out with me?" I want to actually like have a conversation with him before I ask him out. And I don't want to write a note. I want to ask him in person. How would I do this without totally embarrasing myself? I rate 5's on good answers.
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honey you've got to be his friend first just go up to him like hes one of your girl friends and be like hey what areyou doing friday night. and than be like do you want to go to a movie and if he says yes tell him you like him at the movie or something...i am bad at this whole liking thing
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You answered your own question-- you need to talk to him before just asking him out. Initiate conversations, let him get to know & love your personality, & *then* go for it. Chances are you're just going to be crushed if you go for it now-- why would he say yes if you never even talk? Getting to know him beforehand will make it less awkward for both of you.
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Well, i was also in the same situation...I had a class with the guy so it was easier for me. If you do have a class with him, just spark up a conversation. Ask him what his plans are over the weekend, just start a casual conversation with him. Try to become friends with him and get to know him better. Maybe things will end up good in the long run...but it takes time so be patient...try to get his number and ya'll could talk on the phone..hang out on the weekends...become friends first and maybe things will end up good. Hope i could help!!
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well, it just so happens that I was in the same situation! At first just start talking to him casually. Once it seems less wierd to talk to him, just bring it up to him, I know it may be hard @ first, but you have to work up the courage. trust me one this one. & the worst that could happen is that he says no. & thats what happened in my case, but the good part is that I gained a friend! I talk to him more & more now. & you never know, maybe soon you will hang out more or talk more & he will start to like you back! Trust me on this one. Even if he says no, & it seems like the whole world is crumbling, its not. life goes on, & it really does get better! I am in the same situation as you, & things seem to get better between us.. slowly & casually, but not everything can happen right away! :)
I hope I could help. If you want to talk more, IM me @ Diam0nd xOx Eyes, or e-mail me @ chilligrl357@hotmail.com. I really wouldnt mind!
♥ Rachel :D ((shesaidwhat)) :P
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well if hes in any of your classes, ask him for help in something or ask him for time or talk to him about the weather. and have confidence because guys like that in a girl
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