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my reputation is ruined
I went to a party and said something and my friend started crying and everyone is on her side and now my social life is ruined and i dont know what to do to get it back i didnt even know i offended her but i guess i "went too far" and really hurt her but i need to know how to get my social life back
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Apologize to her. You had no idea you crossed a line & went too far & didn't know you had hurt her feelings until she started crying.
If you are really sincerely sorry, she'll forgive you. Don't just apologize to get your rep back though because that's really fake & will make you look like a heartless bitch.
So talk to her, and I'm sure everything will be fine.
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First off try to talk to her, if it doesnt work its ok your "social life" really isnt ruined. You will move on and find other friends and its not as bad as it sounds. But if its really that important to you talk to her and tell her that you are really sorry and you really didnt mean the things that you said, if shes a true friend she will understand. Hope i helped =]
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I think you should go and try to speak to her 1 on 1. Tell her your soory if what u said offended her but you didnt mean to! You seem to be like me and dont hold anything back and thats good sometimes.... Please just try to speak to her even though it might seem hard just try!
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You don't need a "social life" in highschool, focus on your work, don't talk to anyone, and soon everything else will fall back into place.
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just apologize to her and let everyone know that you apologized for it so theyll know your sorry and not that kinda mean person
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If you were drunk, you might be able to undo the damage by making that known...unless these people look down upon drinking. If that's the case, it'll make matters worse. And if there was no alcohol there, this isn't an option.
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