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Okay well ive been dating this guy for about 2 months now and every thing is perfect but ther is one thing that is bugging me he is still really cool with his ex and she still likes him i mean he tells me everything like what she tries to do and stuff like that she knows he is with me and she does not like me at all (i really dont cre about all that) but she texts him all the time tries to come see him and asked him to come over her house im kinda stunned i really dont knw what i should do i mean ive been done so wrong in the past and i dnt wnna put all my troubles on him but i just need help (link)
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If he really likes you and he wants to stay with you, then he should just stop talking to her. Obviously she's causing your relationship trouble, so he should be avoiding that. If he cant stop talking to her and cant understand why you want him too, then maybe you should find someone else thats more understanding.
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Well theres this boy at school that i really really like. He doesn't know i like him . Im too afraid to tell him my feelings, eventhough he said he would give anyone a chance, because I dont really know him that well and I dont think he likes me.I think hes becoming a slight obsession aswell, i cant stop thinking about him. Im really afraid of rejection, should i tell him anyway? or just keep quiet and hope that one day he notices me ? HELP :(. (link)
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If this guy specifically said to that he would give anyone a chance, he obviously wanted you to know that because he likes you.
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the other day my boyfriend was going through my phone and saw his cousins number in my phone (he's a boy) but the thing is he's my second cousin too (me and my boyfriend arent relataed so dont worry) and he went off.. he pushed me and was calling me all kinds of names. now he wont call me back, answer my calls, or even answer my texts. its been 2 days and i still aint heard from him. i love him. and i know he didn't mean to push me. what should i do? im female and 16. (link)
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Get rid of him. Pushing, and name calling are signs for future reference of abuse.
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I went to a party and said something and my friend started crying and everyone is on her side and now my social life is ruined and i dont know what to do to get it back i didnt even know i offended her but i guess i "went too far" and really hurt her but i need to know how to get my social life back (link)
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You don't need a "social life" in highschool, focus on your work, don't talk to anyone, and soon everything else will fall back into place.
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i get teased a lot at school and i rly don't know why... and i only get teased by my friends and every single thing i say or wear they analyze and look for something to criticize me for but they only do it to me but then they invite me to the mall and include me in their groups and stuff but they treat me like im a joke or something
im always nice to them and if they say something i just kinda let it go but its rly starting to get annoying and im getting tired of it... how do i get them to stop?
i don't have a lot of other friends so i cant leave their group and i don't want to talk to them about it or start an argument... are there any small things i could do so they will stop targeting me for everything?? does anyone else have this problem?? (link)
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No, thee is no "small" way to handle this. What you need to do is STOP HANGING OUT WITH THEM. If your nice to people like you're nice to them, then you should have no problem finding some new friends.
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18 female!
Basically, I had been with my boyfriend for 10 months. I have never loved anyone as much as i love him but i wasnt happy! I hardly ever saw him, he wanted to be with his friends at the weekend and I seen him about 2 nights a week if I was lucky enough. I was really hurting inside because i love him so much and wanted to be with him as much as possible, so I decided i would confront him about it, I explained that i would like to see him a bit more and asked if he could give up 1 night at the weekend to be with me, basically asked him to spend more time with me! but he wasnt happy, he said i was making him choose between me and his friends and said it would be best if we were apart! Now im left without the one person i loved most in the world!
did i do the right thing by tellin him how i felt even though it resulted in me loosing him? (link)
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Yes. I really think that if you're the type of person that wants to be with her boyfriend as much as possible, then you should be with someone who feels the same, not some douche who can't spend time with his girlfriend because it makes him "unhappy".
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How do gay men have sex? I was just curious and wanted to know what happens. I'm a girl so I don't know. (link)
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That is THE STUPIDEST question I have EVER heard.
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okay i need advice to give to my best guy friend.
He likes this girl A and loves this girl B. well A likes him back and B loves him to. Me and Him are so confused because he doesnt know what to do. Weather to be with A or B. B told him that shes loved him and would b there when he was done with A. I told him if B really meant what she said then go with A. But then he said that he really loved B and then i said it sounded like hed rather b with B. then he said he didnt know because he really like A too. so i dont know what to do im stuck, hes stuck. Hes is also wanting to lose his virginity to one of these girls. please help and im sorry if its long. thanks (link)
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If your friend really loved "b", then he wouldn't like "a". Therefor are you really sure that he even loves "b".
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I broke final ties (even just friendship) with my ex of 2 years on January 9th. This was both of our doing, but it was hard not to get attached again. Since then I haven't seen or heard from him. Yesterday I called him just as a tendency because I knew I couldn't get the guts to talk to him again, but hung up after 3 rings. Later that evening he called me back but it went straight to my voicemail and I was afraid to pick up.
I've always been that shy girl around him (I'll be 17 next month and he's 19 and a half) and now after a 3-month absence should I try and be more bold and actually call and talk to him?
Help is appreciated:) (link)
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If you broke all ties with him, it must have been for a good reason, it's probably best if it stayed that way.
Good luck on whatever you decide.
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Ok so im sorry if this is long but i really need help. So my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and 2 months now, but we have broken up quite a few times, two of them were because he cheated on me. Well this summer we were'nt dating and i really liked this kid Coston, his family and mine are really close but anyways we had a thing almost all summer long and then when school started again me and Jordan (kid mentioned at beginning) started dating again so mine and Costons thing just kinda ended well now i started talking to Coston again and i am really starting to like him again and im not sure what to do... i mean Jordan has hurt me a lot before and i dont really trust him but Coston has never hurt me and he just makes me smile. Dont get me wrong i love my boyfriend but i just dont know what to do anymore and i would really like some help!! Thanks for reading, hope it makes sense =] (link)
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I'm sorry that I'm going to be really honest here, but quite frankly, I belive you should take a chance with Coston, because you may love your boyfriend, but he doesn't love you. If he loved you then he wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place.
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