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Did I do the right thing?
18 female!
Basically, I had been with my boyfriend for 10 months. I have never loved anyone as much as i love him but i wasnt happy! I hardly ever saw him, he wanted to be with his friends at the weekend and I seen him about 2 nights a week if I was lucky enough. I was really hurting inside because i love him so much and wanted to be with him as much as possible, so I decided i would confront him about it, I explained that i would like to see him a bit more and asked if he could give up 1 night at the weekend to be with me, basically asked him to spend more time with me! but he wasnt happy, he said i was making him choose between me and his friends and said it would be best if we were apart! Now im left without the one person i loved most in the world!
did i do the right thing by tellin him how i felt even though it resulted in me loosing him?
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dear doubtful,
never, i repeat never, regret what u just did. if he cant spend a night with you instead of his friends, which he probably sees everyday, then that means that he doesnt think you r worth it..... but you know what. you are definitely worth it, and never doubt that. he is going think back one day and realize how stupid he was.
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Yes. I really think that if you're the type of person that wants to be with her boyfriend as much as possible, then you should be with someone who feels the same, not some douche who can't spend time with his girlfriend because it makes him "unhappy".
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You did do the right thing. You weren't happy.
I really don't think he's worth it if he's not willing to spend a little more time with you. You barely see each other already.
And I think this:
" i was making him choose between me and his friends and said it would be best if we were apart!"
Very stupid.
I don't think you were making him choose or even asking too much.
Enjoy your time without him please.
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