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don't know what to do
i get teased a lot at school and i rly don't know why... and i only get teased by my friends and every single thing i say or wear they analyze and look for something to criticize me for but they only do it to me but then they invite me to the mall and include me in their groups and stuff but they treat me like im a joke or something
im always nice to them and if they say something i just kinda let it go but its rly starting to get annoying and im getting tired of it... how do i get them to stop?
i don't have a lot of other friends so i cant leave their group and i don't want to talk to them about it or start an argument... are there any small things i could do so they will stop targeting me for everything?? does anyone else have this problem??
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I don't know how old you are, but you're probably 13 or 14, huh?
Well, the most I can tell you is that they're not really your friends. Friends don't analyze what you say, what you think, or what you wear. If they were really your friends, they would respect you & not tease you.
They see you as an inferior to them.
Stop being nice to them. Feed them what they feed you. It could start an argument, but it's better to stand up for yourself than to take everyone's shit. Find yourself some real friends sweetie. You don't deserve to be teased. Believe me, I've been there. It sucks, so do what you need to.
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No, thee is no "small" way to handle this. What you need to do is STOP HANGING OUT WITH THEM. If your nice to people like you're nice to them, then you should have no problem finding some new friends.
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You really should tell them to knock it off. Don't let it go, they'll just keep doing it. If they aren't going to respect you then it's not going to get any better for you.
Don't let them "act" angry at you. You get angry, let them know exactly how you feel.
I had a lot of friends that did that. Now it's easy to see that most of them didn't care at all.
I told one of them I didn't appreciate the way she treated me and if she didn't stop it, there's no reason to stay friends. And after a couple of days, she apologized and never did it again.
If they don't stop, then they don't care about your feelings. They're not your friends.
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