Well theres this boy at school that i really really like. He doesn't know i like him . Im too afraid to tell him my feelings, eventhough he said he would give anyone a chance, because I dont really know him that well and I dont think he likes me.I think hes becoming a slight obsession aswell, i cant stop thinking about him. Im really afraid of rejection, should i tell him anyway? or just keep quiet and hope that one day he notices me ? HELP :(.
I think you should go for it, I understand that rejection is something none of us look forward to, however, it is (unfortunately) bound to happen to all of us at some point in time. But it's important to know that just because one guy may not feel the same way, doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you, it just means that it wasn't meant to be and you're on your way to find another guy who's worth your time. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
Sami143 answered Monday April 6 2009, 12:12 pm: Most guys try to keep their feeling hidden and dont like yo show them.. so i would tell him how you feel it really cant go that bad especially if he said he would give anyone a chance if he told you that he may be giving you a hint that you could be taht anyone. So tell him and i hope iy goes well =] [ Sami143's advice column | Ask Sami143 A Question ]
LavignaJ answered Sunday April 5 2009, 10:56 pm: If this guy specifically said to that he would give anyone a chance, he obviously wanted you to know that because he likes you. [ LavignaJ's advice column | Ask LavignaJ A Question ]
canada2011 answered Sunday April 5 2009, 9:20 pm: Rejection is something we're all afraid of. Trust me I am afraid of it as well. But you can't let that take control of your life. Whats the worst that can happen he say no. Thats not a big deal there will be plently of others just like him. All you can do is just go for it. Good Luck [ canada2011's advice column | Ask canada2011 A Question ]
thelaura answered Sunday April 5 2009, 9:10 pm: Rejection is nothing to be afraid of and throughout life, it will happen in different forms. If you've never encountered it before, of course it's going to be scary - but it's a lesson learnt.
Hunni, the worst that can happen is he will say no. It's not a big deal and at least that way, you won't be left in limbo.
Tell him, in any way possible, if you can. Or try to get to know him more and hang out with him.
Go for it. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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