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help him
okay i need advice to give to my best guy friend.
He likes this girl A and loves this girl B. well A likes him back and B loves him to. Me and Him are so confused because he doesnt know what to do. Weather to be with A or B. B told him that shes loved him and would b there when he was done with A. I told him if B really meant what she said then go with A. But then he said that he really loved B and then i said it sounded like hed rather b with B. then he said he didnt know because he really like A too. so i dont know what to do im stuck, hes stuck. Hes is also wanting to lose his virginity to one of these girls. please help and im sorry if its long. thanks
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loving a female is alot differnt than liking a female. if he really loves b than he should be with b. i think he should take the time to go on a few dates with each girl. see who he is more compatable with. just because b says she will wait doesnt mean she will. it would probably really hurt her to see him date a first then go to b if he and a didnt work.
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Well love is a lot different than like and if he is looking into loosing his virginity to one of these girls go with the one that he loves and the one that loves him becase in the end Girl A will move on but if its true love girl B will stick around a lot longer and most likely wont break his heart. So if i were him i would go with love before like anyday but thats just my opinion i hope i helped and tell him good luck =]
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Well the best advice I can give you and your best guy friend is this:
If he really loved B he wouldn't be even thinking about being with A. My guess is that he's just realy confused right now and needs to think things over for himself. He can't have both girls haha so eventually he's going to have to pick one. I can't tell you what to tell him to decide [does that even make sense laughingoutloud] but I would say his best bet is to go with A. I mean, he likes her and she is in getting in the way of him fully loving B [if he even truly loves her because he might not] I know it's going to be very hard for him to let one of these girls down and break one of their hearts, but in the end, the decision is his. Ask him these questions..
1. who does he think about when he first wakes up in the morning?
2. who does he think about before he goes to sleep?
3. who makes him smile the most?
4. who is he more at ease with and comfortable around, enough to be himself?
5. who is more fun to be around?
6. who does he trust more?
Make him answer this honeslty and the whole virginity thing, well. that's something that he can worry about AFTER he chooses wihich girl he wants. I mean, losing your virginity is a huge deal, but it's not like he should base his decision on "who he would rather sleep with" yuh know? haha. If you ask him those questions, and he says "idk" then make him answer A or B. it has to be one. and these answers will most liekly give you the answer to whom he should choose :]
oh and he should also talk to both girls about all of this, it will also help.
good luckk, i hope i helped and i wish you and your friend the best of luck :] xxo !
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It sounds like he likes B better. Go with B.
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If B is so understanding to let him go out with A then i would go with B because if she is that understanding to let him go with another girl then she can understand the guy and help through all the tough times. Hope all goes well!
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If your friend really loved "b", then he wouldn't like "a". Therefor are you really sure that he even loves "b".
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