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this is the first time he's pushed me
the other day my boyfriend was going through my phone and saw his cousins number in my phone (he's a boy) but the thing is he's my second cousin too (me and my boyfriend arent relataed so dont worry) and he went off.. he pushed me and was calling me all kinds of names. now he wont call me back, answer my calls, or even answer my texts. its been 2 days and i still aint heard from him. i love him. and i know he didn't mean to push me. what should i do? im female and 16.
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He pushed you. Get out of the relationship now.
It'll start with a push, and then it'll get worse. Leave before it escalates to a dangerous level. You can NEVER let a man put his hands on you whether he means to or not. :(
Have some self-respect & dump him.
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Forget about him. My ex seen my son's fathers sisters number in my phone shoved me into a wall and nail went through my hand. Told me to get out his house. etc. Then wanted me back. When he started accusing me of cheating, is when i caught him cheating moron didnt delete his text messages. its only a matter time. first time he even touches you is when you should go. dont put your self through it you dont deserve it.
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umm, its your cousin.. its not like your going to go and kiss/do stuff with your COUSIN! thats gross. It doesn't matter if he didn't mean to push you, the fact is that he did. You shouldn't be trying to get a hold of him, he should be calling you asking for your forgiveness etc. i know he'll say that he won't do it agian, but this is the first sign of dating abuse/violence. Don't get involved with a guy like this, hes not worth it. Move on, expecially at 16!
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I am just going to be completly honest here if he pushed you over something stupid like that then he is not worth it. Yeah guys get mad but pushing you is taking it way too far! And after he pushed you now he isnt even talking to you??? im sorry but that's beyond messed up. But i know what it is like to love someone so if i were you i would try to talk to him and dont make him think that the pushing you thing is ok because he will do it again! but talk to him and tell him that he needs to talk about things instead of just truning to abuse. Hope i helped and good luck! =]
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Sweetheart you are so much better than him. If he didn't mean to push you, he would have called you back by now. if he was a decent, sincere man, not a little boy, he would have been on his knees begging for your forgivness.
You deserve so much better!! I know you love him, but there will be other loves in your life, and right now, by staying with him, you're just wasting precious time being pushed around and abussed rather than being with someone who would treat you right.
Give it some thought from someone else's perspective. It might help. Just remember that NO GIRL should EVER be pushed, NO MATTER WHAT. And seeing that it was something so minimal this time, what if next time he sees you hug a guy and goes on a bigger tantrum? It's not worth it.
I'm 16 as well, and I dated a guy for almost 1 year and one day, our eleventh month, he shoved me, but i stayed, being stupid and thought it was nothing. neever got an apology, but after that he started doing it more and more until i finally smacked him and left his ass. So please, don't make the same mistake I did! You are SO MUCH BETTER THAN HIM, and by staying with him, YOU ARE DEPRIVING A NICE GUY (THAT'LL TREAT YOU RIGHT) FROM BEING WITH YOU!!! =]]
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Get rid of him. Pushing, and name calling are signs for future reference of abuse.
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