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the name's em. im 16. i'm spontaneous. i talk waaayy too much. i love talking to people. i tell everything like it is and i don't sugar coat things. i speak my mind, which often gets me into trouble. so if you'd like advice, don't expect me to be all unicorns and rainbows about it because some of y'all out there need some tough love. so ask away! [=

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hay... i don't really have a mom to teach me these things but...can anyone tell me how people do those wavey curls in their hair..i tryed alot but i can... alot of people do their hair like that.....also how do you straiten your hair and keep it staight for the rest of day,...i have a really expensive staitner..it works great..just wanna know how to keep it straight... and can anyone tell me any cute prepy hair styles to do....thanks......by the way i have long hair.....okay

i have naturally straight hair, which is actually really thick, and to get the wavy look i shower the night before and wait til my hair is almost dry, but still sort of damp. then i french braid it. depending on how big you want the waves, you can do just one braid, or like me do 4 or five, (like i said, i have thick hair.) then take the braids out in the morning and put some gel in. you can even use the difuser blow dryer attachment to dry it better and "perk" it up. a nice straightening, anti-frizz gel helps my hair stay straight all day, and makes it smooth. hope i helped [= and feel free to ask me anything else.
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hey! well im 15/f and this guy i have a feeling kind of likes me! i always flirt by saying if you say that one more time im gonna have to do something about it then they do and i like go flirt with them. well this kid i really didnt know i mean ive talked to him like 3 times maybe i/m me and started talkin to me and then called me a couple times. but on AIM i was like if you dont stop sayin somethin im gonna do somethin about it and hes like what you gonna do? and im like you'll see when i see you next. but i was kinda being a tease to him because really ive only madeout like a couple times. but im afraid that ive kinda sounded like i wanted to do stuff with him which i dont at all..maybe just makeout? and now he always wants to get together and probably just wants to do stuff with me. he already asked if i would have sex with him and i was like noo im not gonna do that because yes im still a virgin!! :D but im afraid i have maybe led him on or like teased him too much so if we ever do end up hangin out or whatever what do i say to him saying like i wanna get to know you better because i really dont know you too well!? i feel bad for kinda teasin him i do it without even knowing i am. but i just dont know what to do! he kinda keeps callin me and one time we talked and he was sayin all this cute stuff to me but i think he was just trying to sweet talk me so he could get in my pants and i dont really wanna talk to him on the phone anymore because he makes me feel kinda uncomfortable since he is always talking about me and sexual stuff. i feel bad but i just dont want a relationship right now and i definatley dont wanna do much with him! thanks so much for reading this and if you could help me on what to say and everything to him that would be so helpful!

get rid of him. he sounds like he just wants ass. trust me because i am a very flirty person myself, that he's bad news.
one time i liked this kid that went to my pool sorta, and we flirted a ton. we talked a lot and hung out alot too. he would constantly text me and say things like "i love you" and sexual things. i didn't want to do anything with him, but it was fun leading him on. (cruel, i know) i ended up telling him i wasn't interested and he got pissed, but it was worth it. don't lower your standards for the first guy that wants to get in your pants. there will be someone much better who comes along. i promise.
now for the letting down part.. i was kind of a bitch, for lack of other words, to this guy. you could just tell him that you aren't into that and you have feelings for someone else and sorry if he got the wrong impression. most guys will back off if there is another male in the picture. so there. that's it. hope i helped. peace. [=

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I;m 14 an I Have had a few boyfriends but the thing is i cant stay that long with them when ever i see them or they want to even just talk to me i get weird and break up with them but heres the weird thing when we are not togther i can do anything hold hands kiss hangout talk without getting weird but once i know where togther i get weird. Whats worng?

it's probably because you are only fourteen. i know when i was fourteen, i couldn't keep a long relationship either. maybe you aren't ready for a serious boyfriend. and everyone get nervous when they are inexperienced. thats natural. so if you really like this guy take small steps, like giving him a flirty look, and if you are too nervous to make the first move, hopefully he'll get the hint and do it himself! ha hope i helped.

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