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this guy..am i a tease? just wants to use me??..
hey! well im 15/f and this guy i have a feeling kind of likes me! i always flirt by saying if you say that one more time im gonna have to do something about it then they do and i like go flirt with them. well this kid i really didnt know i mean ive talked to him like 3 times maybe i/m me and started talkin to me and then called me a couple times. but on AIM i was like if you dont stop sayin somethin im gonna do somethin about it and hes like what you gonna do? and im like you'll see when i see you next. but i was kinda being a tease to him because really ive only madeout like a couple times. but im afraid that ive kinda sounded like i wanted to do stuff with him which i dont at all..maybe just makeout? and now he always wants to get together and probably just wants to do stuff with me. he already asked if i would have sex with him and i was like noo im not gonna do that because yes im still a virgin!! :D but im afraid i have maybe led him on or like teased him too much so if we ever do end up hangin out or whatever what do i say to him saying like i wanna get to know you better because i really dont know you too well!? i feel bad for kinda teasin him i do it without even knowing i am. but i just dont know what to do! he kinda keeps callin me and one time we talked and he was sayin all this cute stuff to me but i think he was just trying to sweet talk me so he could get in my pants and i dont really wanna talk to him on the phone anymore because he makes me feel kinda uncomfortable since he is always talking about me and sexual stuff. i feel bad but i just dont want a relationship right now and i definatley dont wanna do much with him! thanks so much for reading this and if you could help me on what to say and everything to him that would be so helpful!
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get rid of him. he sounds like he just wants ass. trust me because i am a very flirty person myself, that he's bad news.
one time i liked this kid that went to my pool sorta, and we flirted a ton. we talked a lot and hung out alot too. he would constantly text me and say things like "i love you" and sexual things. i didn't want to do anything with him, but it was fun leading him on. (cruel, i know) i ended up telling him i wasn't interested and he got pissed, but it was worth it. don't lower your standards for the first guy that wants to get in your pants. there will be someone much better who comes along. i promise.
now for the letting down part.. i was kind of a bitch, for lack of other words, to this guy. you could just tell him that you aren't into that and you have feelings for someone else and sorry if he got the wrong impression. most guys will back off if there is another male in the picture. so there. that's it. hope i helped. peace. [=
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It was a little naughty to lead him on but there has been no real harm done.
I suggest that you tell him that you are sorry for letting him think you wanted to take things further. You have to be true to yourself at all times and just say that for now you are not looking for a long term relationship. You are only 15 and it is way too young for some girls to be even thinking about having sex, let alone casual sex with someone you hardly know.
I also suggest that you do not talk to him any more on AIM or the phone. Good luck.
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