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playing hard to get..
how can you play "hard to get" with a guy i mean i kind of know the concept of it but i really dont know how to do it! like could you give me examples or something that would be playing hard to get!? thank you!
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1. Don't make yourself too available. It's important that he feels he has to work to see you. Space phone calls a day or two apart. When you make plans, always tell them that you have a lot going on, but you may be able to find time in your "busy" schedule for them (even if you're an unemployed slacker, make something up like plans with friends). This makes you seem less available and your time more valuable.
2. Don't be too difficult. If you're never around or available, he might lose interest and decide you're not worth his time.
3. Don't call him very often and never to just talk.
4. Return his/her phone calls. Guys and girls both hate it when you don't call them back.
5. Don't give him any extra attention. If you're hanging around a bunch of people, spread your attention all around (don't completely ignore him though).
6. Don't give up your life. Hang out with friends. It's attractive when you have a life of your own.
7. Be sweet. Just because you're not laying on the sugar doesn't mean you can't be sweet. Compliment him on little things or just give him a smile just meant for him.
8. Be friends but be careful not to start a brother/sister relationship.
9. Have an aura of mystique. Mystery, in addition to being attracting, adds challenge. Don't tell him everything about you right off, keep it somewhat of a mystery.
Hope this helps ya'...
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Well its not about being too agressive with him (like don't say "go away, I hate you)..like if he looks over at you, look back at him for a few seconds, than look away. Then if he tries to talk to you, talk with him for a little while, and flirt with him, then walk away to your other friends. Tell your other friends you like this guy, and when this guy finds out about you telling your friends you like him, act as if you don't really, and just flirt to play around with him. But then you have to tell him you really like him after awhile of playing hard to get (don't just leave him hanging for more then a month), or else he'll think you're a tease and will forget about you.
Hope this helped!
-mystical_breeze
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when he looks at you, if yourplaying hard to get, then you look over at him, kind of look him up and down, so that he sees your eyes moving, and then smile slightly and turn away
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