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Boyfriend :\
I;m 14 an I Have had a few boyfriends but the thing is i cant stay that long with them when ever i see them or they want to even just talk to me i get weird and break up with them but heres the weird thing when we are not togther i can do anything hold hands kiss hangout talk without getting weird but once i know where togther i get weird. Whats worng?
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i think that you just get nervous with the thought that you have a boyfriend, and you are just used to you only knowing who u r crushiong on
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it's probably because you are only fourteen. i know when i was fourteen, i couldn't keep a long relationship either. maybe you aren't ready for a serious boyfriend. and everyone get nervous when they are inexperienced. thats natural. so if you really like this guy take small steps, like giving him a flirty look, and if you are too nervous to make the first move, hopefully he'll get the hint and do it himself! ha hope i helped.
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you are afraid of a relationship and don't want to be tied down yet but luckily in a little while you should be ready
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i would looove to help you but right now im in the same situation - and im 13. if you have an aol screenname email it to me [[ xoxokjasminexoxo@aim.com ]] and ill try and help you out. =]
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There is absolutly nothing wrong with you at all!! You are still young and just haven't found the right person.. as soon as you do you will want to spend time with them as boyfriend and girlfriend!
Don't worry about finding a boyfriend.. because as soon as you stop looking you will most likely bump into the one you have been looking for!!!
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You just need to get used to it,it's normal,one day it will be like if you know him your whole life,you won't have that feeling anymore,let yourself live that relationship,don't be scared,if you give yourself a chance you'll be a very happy person, don't that get in the way for you to know love,and share that wonderful experience with others.
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its normal i mean for some girls i had the same problem. until i meet my current boyfriend you have to find a good reason why you cant break up with them. things will get better it takes time and the right guy
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a lot of girls have the problem & i'm definitely one of them. you're afraid of commitment. maybe you should start "talking" to boys before you decide to persue a relationship with them. you know? get really comfortable around them (i'd give it at least two or three weeks) before you actually consider yourself "boyfriend & girlfriend". [:
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Maybe the words
-Relationship
-Boyfriend
-Going out
-etc
Is getting on your nerves and is making you uncomfortable. On the other hand when you guys aren't going out, you feel comfortable and such
Maybe you just like the guys you go out with as good friends...well the kissing part doesn't fit in though. Or it might be that you don't want to be tied down to one guy and you want to experiment with other guys at the same time without having to stay with one guy. Just take your time and lay off the bf thing for a while.
**emm[y]
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