about

I'm:
Michelle Renee
16 years old
a sophomore at NAI
Just a typical teenager;
Nothing special
The type of girl that likes
piercings, tattoos and rock music (:
I'm not a poser, I just like a variety of things
I pretty much love scary movies
and anything weird, abnormal, bloody or gruesome.
yeah I'm a strange child, get used to it :]
I never appreciate anything I do,
because to me it'll never be good enough
I'm no longer going to let people in,
as easily as I used to before
I'm done with people building me up,
just to tear me back down
This is only a brief description of myself,
There's more to me than what meets the eye
It's your choice if you want to find out or not
p.s. you can ask me anything ! ;]

advice

Hi. i'm 15 years old, and i'm a guy. i like doing stuff normal guys do, but i'm really starting to think i'm gay. i mean i think girls can be hot, but i sdon't think any further than that ( and plus the thought of being with a girl in bed does not interest me at all ). so i guess i'm kind of saing i AM gay. but i have no intention of coming out, the thought just horifies me. do you have any advice? thanks alot

do you possibly know anyone that's gay also? like a friend or a family memeber? If so then maybe you'd feel more comfortable talking to them and coming out to them. I know you said that the thought of coming out horrifies you but I honestly think that you'd be better off coming out. I know it was seem horifying and upsetting to come out because you won't know what people think or say..but I think that's the best thing to do. I'm sure once you discuss it over with a close friend or someone you know that is gay that they'll be there for you no matter what. And once you told them, maybe you want to try telling your parents. It'll be difficult but once you do it you'll feel so much better that you told and I'm sure they'll understand fully. Hope this helps. Good luck ;]

yours,
Michellemonster

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. I'm 14, and he's turning 15. We haven't had sex, but we have talked about it. The problem is, there are other couples in my school having sex that haven't even been together that long. Basically, I'm pressured all the time to have sex with him. I feel like we have waited way too long and if everyone else is, then why aren't we? I know I should wait until I'm ready..but it's been over a year and I feel like we have to. What should I do.

Don't do something just because everyone else is doing it. I mean so what if you guys have been together for a year, maybe you both aren't emotionally ready for sex. I'd say wait a while before you have sex. Because if you do it now while feeling under pressure and uncomfortable I garentee you'll regret it later. Beside sex is about love and it should be something special..not the latest trend or game. Just think this through before you do anything yet. Hope this helps! ;]

yours,
Michellemonster

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so i already asked a question about dark back and stomach hairs.. and people said to bleach it instead of waxing or shaving, but until i can find a bleaching kit and stuff, do you think it would be ok to just shave it for now, and then bleach the dark hairs after they grow back? thanks a ton!!

I wouldn't recommend shaving it. If you shave your stomach it'll grow back thicker and hairier. And it will be more noticable. So I just suggest waiting until you can get a bleaching kit and then bleach it. ;]

yours,
Michellemonster

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is there anyway to become more photogenic? my younger sister really never takes a bad picture but a good majority of mine are`

um all you can really do is practice.

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ok um my look
i think ruins my love lifee..
I dont know what to dooo!!!
with my hair...clothess..facee.
helppp?
Pics:
http://s290.photobucket.com/albums/ll268/omglove12344/?action=view¤t=hairup.jpg

http://s290.photobucket.com/albums/ll268/omglove12344/?action=view¤t=BOWWYY.jpg

http://s290.photobucket.com/albums/ll268/omglove12344/?action=view¤t=Sleepover5.jpg

I honestly think that you don't have to change one single thing about you. You're really pretty and you have some really gorgeous green eyes. I also think that your style/clothes are fine. If anything maybe you'd want to try a new haircut or try different make-ups. But I still think you look great.


yours,
Michellemonster

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Im 14 years old, im 5'9, and i weigh 167 at the most. usually around 163-165 my weight goes up and down.

but i was wondering if that was an unhealthy weight? like overweight?

thank you :D
-kenzie

It seems to me that you're normal weight..but if you gain anymore weight you'll be at risk of becoming over-weight. So you'll be fine if you just eat healthy and walk a few times a day. Hope this is helpful! (:

yours,
Michellemonster

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17/f

I've been on a diet for three days now and I'm finding it really hard. I have a huge sweet tooth and I just love cakes and chocolate and lollies.
I eat enough and I'm not hungry after I eat but I really really have huge cravings for something sweet all the time and I can't stop it. It's really bad. What can I do to stop myself eating bad things? All I want is the taste of something sweet in my mouth.
Exercise doesn't stop my cravings coz I've tried :S

Can anyone help me?

ok well I can so relate because I am exactly the same way you are. I suggest either eating low fat candy or even better eating fruit that has natural sugar in it. Such as peaches, strawberries, oranges, or anything like that. That way you're eating stuff that tastes good but that is also healthy all at the same time. Hope this helps :]

yours,
Michellemonster

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So I think my boyfriend is making me depressed becuase we never really hangout much anymore, and he's all "unsatisfied" and He's making me really depressed, and sometimes its scary because I feel like my throat is closing or something its liek ar eally weird feeling. I don't know what to do, I kind of want to break up, I hate feeling this way. Help!

First of all I think that your throat is closing up because you're either really stressed or you're panicing too much. I don't think that it's really something to worry about though. And about your boyfriend..well I think that you should let him know that not hanging out and he's "unsatisfied" behavior is making you feel this way. Don't worry about what he's going to say or feel..Think about yourself, put yourself first before anyone else. If I were you I would tell him that we never hang out anymore and I don't like it. And if he gives you an unpleasent response let him know that it's now or never. Because you shouldn't let a guy make you feel this way..never. So maybe the best thing to do is break up. Either wait it out a few days and see if he changes or just end it. I hope this helps. Good luck ;]

yours,
Michellemonster

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who are these people? names would be great. but if you dont know them could you at least give me or pictures of them if you have any? thanks.

http://s75.photobucket.com/albums/i312/Otaku_Michiyo/?action=view¤t=sceneboyandgirl.jpg

http://s75.photobucket.com/albums/i312/Otaku_Michiyo/?action=view¤t=Me25_683.jpg

http://s75.photobucket.com/albums/i312/Otaku_Michiyo/?action=view¤t=scene-thin-girls-59452.jpg

the first two photos i dont really know, i think that they are just extremely gorgeous random scene kids =D
but i do know the last one!! its brittany kramer. here are a few photos of her:

http://img241.imageshack.us/img241/5008/brit12wj0.jpg

http://sp5.fotologs.net/photo/5/43/7/brittany_kramer/1157719220_f.jpg

http://i108.piczo.com/view/3/c/a/s/e/w/b/m/k/9/g/9/img/i232069337_40974_7.jpg

http://photobucket.com/image/brittany%20kramer/sk8ergirl_016/BrittanyKramer.jpg?o=1

i love her!! haha shes awesome! hope i helped =]]



yours,
michellemonster

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I have this friend. She is amazing dont get me wrong, but she has another friend. I am not mentioning any names. She tries to hang out with both of us but when we are together her other friend always pushes me out of the way. Now everytime i want to hang out with her i have to hang out with her and her other friend or i dont hang out with her at all. What should i do? should i back off and let her other friend take over our friend ship? i dont know.. Help me!

I think that you shouldn't stand by and let that other girl take away your bestfriend and your friendship. I think that you should let that other girl know that she cannot control your bestfriend and that she should stop pushing you out of the picture. If that doesn't work talk to your bestfriend alone about it and see what she thinks.

hope that works ;]
yours,
Michelle Monster

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