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hi so recently i started talking to this boy. hes always pressuring me to give him head but i tell him i want to get to know him better and hang out first. he says that if i give him head it will show i like him and he will consider dating me. i just want to hang out first but he doesn't want to. does it seem like he just wants one thing only? (link)
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It does to me. Never do anything you dont want to do. Wait until you're ready, if he doesnt respect you enough to wait until you're ready he isn't worth your time.
Sarah Lou
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okay, my friend A went out with this guy T, but then they broke up. it was a mutual desision; anyway now my friend is really happy with this other guy, her on - off boyfriend, anyway, now i REALLY like T but my question is, is it wrong to flirt and maybe if im lucky more than that woth T seeing as he's A's ex? i know the whole ' never date your friends ex's,' but if she's happy with this other guy; i was wonderingif it's okay? (link)
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The only way you'll find out is to ask your friend how she think she'd feel about it, if she say's ok then go for it, but you would have to make sure she's still ok if anything was going to get serious because she might think she is going to be ok, but after she's seen you together or whatever she might not really like it. Make sure you find out how she feels because if you dont you might end up losing her over it, and its not worth that.
Sarah Lou
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how should i meet this indie intellectual guy i really like at school? i have a friend who knows him and she has offered to introduce me but i dont think i have a chance anyways.
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You cant think like that, you'll have to believe that you have a chance to be in with a chance. Maybe go to a gig you know he's going to and get your friend to introduce you there, then you have at least one thing to talk to him about (the band) which will probably lead onto other stuff, then you can find out if he's cool as well. Just cause he's good looking and intellectual doesnt always mean he's a nice guy
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lets say youre in this situation. (its also mine..)
from grade 1 to 9, you had nearly straight As. you were an overachiever. your parents were proud of you. stress never got to you.
in the 10th grade, you were SOO tired of always getting the straight As and the stress got to you so much, that you just completely let yourself go. you always felt like sleeping, you would go days without eating..and days where you ate too much. you never felt like doing homework anymore and felt the need to look at the mirror and look perfect for a boyfriend more than doing work in school. you've found that you're losing friends and your grades slip slowly...to a point where you're getting Cs instead of the As you thought you would get in certain subjects. you only do what is easy for you and you dont even study for tests. you finished the year off...normally. average. not as the overachiever straight A for final grade person you used to be.
would you think this is depression? why would this happen to a person who has never done bad in anything..? all of a sudden? it just doesnt make any sense to me! I'm slowly getting better and hopefully will get back on track by next year. But I don't know what happened to me. What would you think?
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I wasn't an over achiever as such but i was a clever young girl, and definately the achiever of the family. In my final two years of school I started to slack majorly for two reasons, one I was finding my identity and so that meant seeing freinds more and doing tyhings other than my school work and the other was the main one, i was sick and tired of people just assuming I was naturally clever, I wanted to show my parents and my sister that what I achieved was through hard work, and so if i started slacking my family would notice and then they would realise that my results were suffering. This sounds petty now but as a teenager it made sense.
I dont think this is depression but if you do feel that way you should speak to your doctor because they can take all the aspects of your life into consideration and they will be able to help you if you really are depressed
I dont know if this will help but i hope it does
Sarah
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Hi, I am 13/F if it helps:
I have a LOT of guy friends. Maybe even more than girl friends. All of me and my guy friends are really close. How come all of my girl friends get asked out and I don't? I am not ugly or anything, and I am pretty popular at school. How come none of my guy friends have a crush on me or anything?
Guy & Girl advice would be nice. Thanks beforehand!!! (link)
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This is exactly like me, your problem might be like mine...I don't flirt with boys, I become one of them. If you befriend boys then they will never think of you as a "girlfriend" type, you need to flirt. But to be honest with you at 13 i wouldn't worry about it, and keep your lad mates close, i've found that boy mates are sometimes better than girls, girls are bitches.
I dont know if this will help, hope it does
Sarah xx
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