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does he just want one thing?
hi so recently i started talking to this boy. hes always pressuring me to give him head but i tell him i want to get to know him better and hang out first. he says that if i give him head it will show i like him and he will consider dating me. i just want to hang out first but he doesn't want to. does it seem like he just wants one thing only?
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Honestly, all he wants is head. Giving a boy head won't prove you like him. Guys will just say that to get you to do sexual things to them. He even said consider. Which means, think about it. He'll change his mind after you give him head, cause that's all he wants. Or, he'll date you, but just because you'll give him head all the time or because maybe he thinks you'll have sex with him. Guys like this are a huge thing to avoid. You don't want to put yourself in a situation where you'll get hurt, sweetie. I'd say to just reject it, and him all together, because he just wants one thing.
Hope I helped! :]
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I've had the same experience. My ex boyfriend, Harry, 'got together' with me after 6 months of not talking and asked me to give him head. I knows I'm crazy about him and promised me a healthyly relationship if we go up to third base. Many of my friends told me to forget about him and not speak to him, which I did.
Now me and Harry are really good friends, close enough for him to tell me that he only wanted me to give him head because he had no one else to do it for him.
Leave him be for now, try to stop talking to him. If he asks why, then tell him straight out.
Hope this helps =]
Kkytha 14/f
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If you dont want to dont. It sounds like the same thing my friend just went through. Her boyfriend told her to do it or he will break up with him so she did and he broke it off anyways. then he told everyone in her school that she was a slut and that she did it. All he wants is sex not you. He is nothing but scum and he is trying to use you. Dont let him hurt you or pressure you into anything. Honestly I dont think he deserves your friendship. Tell him to go find someone else because you dont need someone like that. And the simply never talk to him again. You will keep your selfrespect and make him feel like an ass
xx Stephanie
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He is scum. If you had any dignity, you would leave him now.
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Yes.
He is trying to bribe you with some weak promise of a relationship if you sexually please him.
He doesn't care about your opinion, your feelings or your friendship.
If he doesn't want to 'hang out' unless there is oral sex involved then there is no other rational explination but that he is interested only in sex and doesn't care much which girl he gets it from.
Stop talking to him. He sounds scummy.
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ya this is the type of guy you do not want to be around with if thats what means for him to go out with you then he isnt worth it at ALL.
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To be completely honest with you...
Yeah, he seems like he just wants to use you for head. I'd stop talking to him =/
-Laura. (16-f)
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It does to me. Never do anything you dont want to do. Wait until you're ready, if he doesnt respect you enough to wait until you're ready he isn't worth your time.
Sarah Lou
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