Hi. i'm 15 years old, and i'm a guy. i like doing stuff normal guys do, but i'm really starting to think i'm gay. i mean i think girls can be hot, but i sdon't think any further than that ( and plus the thought of being with a girl in bed does not interest me at all ). so i guess i'm kind of saing i AM gay. but i have no intention of coming out, the thought just horifies me. do you have any advice? thanks alot
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? michellemonster answered Monday June 23 2008, 4:50 pm: do you possibly know anyone that's gay also? like a friend or a family memeber? If so then maybe you'd feel more comfortable talking to them and coming out to them. I know you said that the thought of coming out horrifies you but I honestly think that you'd be better off coming out. I know it was seem horifying and upsetting to come out because you won't know what people think or say..but I think that's the best thing to do. I'm sure once you discuss it over with a close friend or someone you know that is gay that they'll be there for you no matter what. And once you told them, maybe you want to try telling your parents. It'll be difficult but once you do it you'll feel so much better that you told and I'm sure they'll understand fully. Hope this helps. Good luck ;]
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