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Suicide.
My best friend commited suicide on the first of this month.. N idk what do with myself anymore. She was everything to me.. we were so close n we were even blood sisters (meaning we poked our fingers and touched our blood together). I met her in the behavorial health hospital n i knew we both had depression, but she always said she'd call me if she was thinking those thoughts again. But she didn't.. N i feel even worse cuz I was supposed to be with her that day too! I feel like I could've stopped her or something. I'm lost without her.. I don't feel like I can do this without her. What should I do? Please Help Me!
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omg, im sorry but i can see why she would do that, life effin sucks. things like that happen. i was in one of those depression hospitals too. so i can relate to the suicidal pain. im now still thinking about just ending it... but you know you should look at the bright side, and be more optimistic. don't think of a glass as half empty, think of it as half full. your blood sister is happy now and is in peace. you were very lucky to have her in your life, someone that you cared about very much. don't let what happened stop you from living your life. life has its ups an downs. when there is love and happiness, misery will come. but the love and happiness is what we all live for... and i kno you can make it through the misery. there's more to life out there waiting for you, and if it's not coming to you right now, go out there and find it. your sister gave you something to carry out into the world, and whatever that something is... it will live in you. you don't just live in a world, a world lives in you.
i wish you the best, and if you need a friend, you can always count on me.
i really am sorry for your loss.
-email: krystal_ily@hotmail.com
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your going through a really hard time in your life they say that hardest times only make you stronger. you sound like a caring and a positive person everything will be just fine .It was her choice im sure she has her own reason too but I believe that you can make it and move on you just have to allow yourself to move on let the past be the best its natural to miss someone that meant so much to you but just know that shes watching over you now and would want the best for you.now its in your hands to save yourself .i dont know if you believe in god or whats your religioun or whatever path you follow im a catholic i believe in praying god causes he always helps me through my toughest moments in life .keep your head up and good luck.
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I am so sorry about your best friend, my God, that is horrible.
Whatever you do, do not blame yourself. It is NOT your fault at all, I promise. Unfortunately and impossible as it may seem, things do happen for a reason. Maybe if you listen to some songs to help you out of the slum. HOnestly, she is in such a better place, and even if you don't believe that, I do, and I know everything will be okay. I know you feel like you can't go on without her, but the world will not ocme to an end, I promise. If anything, life is short and I take it back, things dont just happen for a reason, the happen to teach something about life that you didn't know. I know it is so hard to understand, but everything will be okay. If you are still having trouble maybe talking about it with someone you trust may be a great idea.
I love to listen to people, if you would like to talk to me about it, I am absolutely here, anytime. I know how it feels, to love someone so much and in the blink of an eye they are gone. It is like a bad nightmare that you just can't wake up from, no matter how many times you pinch youself. When you rate me, leave me your email if you would like to talk, okay?
In the meantime I'll list some good songs that have helped me cope with death:
Who you'd be today- Kenny Chesney
Things Left Unsaid- Disciple
To Bring you Back- Paul Alan
Last Night- Skillet
What Hurts the Most- rascal Flatts
Broken-Lindsay Haun
I'll think of some more, but I have listened to these and cried my eyes out, and it does help. YOu have to go through the entire emotion until you can honestly walk away from it.
And please don't blame yourself, you are a good person trapped in a horrific traumatic situation, and you will walk away from this unharmed, you will become stronger, and you willhonestly be okay, I truly believe that, I have faith in you. :)
<3 Jeannie
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It's not your fault. Anyone could have walked in at that moment. Anyone could have hung out with her instead. Why wouldi t be just your fault? It was her choice not to call you. I'm going to asume that your think ing of commiting suicide to yourself but that is not the best way to cope with your lose. Live your life because your best friend can no longer. Always have her in your thoughts but live your life for her. You can do anything. Get threw this depression for her, live your life to the fullest for her. I'm sorry about your lose. But you need to be strong. For both yourself and your best friends family.
Please, Please, PLEASE don't kill yourself. it's not the answer and you'll regret it your whole life. You think you'll be with your best friend, yes but its not your time to go yet. God wants you to have a happy life and you will as long as you don't disipoint you, your family, or your best friend.
Hope I helped and i'm really truly sorry for your lose.
I hope my advice helped you in a smart way to cope with this.
-E
If you need any help or just someone to talk to drop me a question and i'll give you my e-mail. Please, think this through before you make a disition you'll later regret.
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It's a hard thing to understand. Everything happens for a reason even though you may not understand the reason. Maybe help would have helped her but the thoughts would have keep coming back. Your friend is watching over you now making sure you don't make that mistake that she made. Keep your head up and work even harder at your life to show her how much you miss her. it may not make sense right now. but it will
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