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OK, if you don't like those long, dragging on questions, this really isn't for you.I had a crush was on this totally hott guy named Jared. Every time he came near, I'd totally freak out. Now, I'm going out with him. We get along really well, and everything is just great. Except his ex-gf. She isn't ready to let go of him. Literally! When ever we walk home together, (all three of us live very close together) she grabs him and gives him this big lecture on how he completely broke her heart. Then she tells me its a mistake to be with him. It's really obvious she just wants him back... Anyways, we'll just ignore her and hold hands. Then, she'll scoot around us and walk infront making sure she waddles her butt as much as possible.
Jared just tells me to ignore her, and that hes so way over her. That's conforting, but I'm still afraid she'll get him back. She is really pretty and lets just say I'm not quite as lucky. What do I do to get her to just leave us alone?
if he really likes you he'll stick with you, so all you can do is trust him in this situation. he's with you, not her. afterall there has to be a reason as to why they broke up, so i don't think that they'd get back together anytime soon.
as for getting her to leave you guys alone, maybe you two can just stay after school and not meet up with her. or if she says something to you about how you shouldn't be with him just say nicely "i'm sorry things didn't work out for you guys. and i can't just break up with him because of what he did to you because everything is fine in our relationship." or something like that.
kiran answered Saturday December 23 2006, 1:34 am: Well there is probably no way you can get her to stop bugging her. Just stick with him and she may someday stop bugging you guys. So keep ignoring her. If the guy you like now likes you just stick with him you both have real feelings for each other. Just keep thinking positive.
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