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was this rude?
a few days ago me and my friend were talkin and i pointed out to my friend that she had a big nose, and then she told me i had a big belly. well i told my mom what she said and my mom called her mom. they started argueing and my friends mom said that what her daughter said about me was true, that i did have a big belly and i needed to stop wearing tight shirts and hip huggers because my "wobbly mess" hanging out everywhere was repulsive. do you guys think what my friend said to me was rude, or did she have every right to say it because i said she had a big nose? do you think her mom had the okay to say what she did about me?
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both of you guys ere rude to eachother but your friends mom didnt have any right to say what she said. coming from a parents mouth you are probably very upset about what she siad if you feel comfortable in tight shirts and hiphuggers thats fine. your freidns mom is probably insecure fr her daughters sake about her big nose that shes gunna take it outon other people oviussly you because you siad that she had a big nose but i think that her beieing a parent had absolutely no rightto say what she saud if you feel comfortable with your body thats great because my frend saisd somehting like thta to my other frend and now shes on depression meds and shes anorexic
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You were both wrong.
You said your friend had a big nose, so it obviously upset her, because there's not much she can do about it.
I think your friend acted on instinct and only said you had a big belly because you said something nasty to her first - even if you didn't actually mean it.
I feel your friends mum has made the situation worse.
You should all apologize to each other to clear the air.
Your mums are only trying to protect you, but it was a dodgy situation to begin with.
I don't think it's anything to worry and lose friends over.
Try to clear the air as soon as possible, with your friend and your mums :)
Best of luck
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first, i don't think it was nice of you to point out her big nose. no one wants their flaws thrown in their face, and i think what she said to you was justified. now, why your mom called hers after you knew you started the whole thing, i don't understand. that seems a bit rediculous, considering you told on your friend for something you yourself did first. i do think what your friend's mom said was pretty harsh, but you didn't mention what your mom could have possibly said, which affects things.
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neither of you guys said the right thing.
you both said something that hurt one another.
maybe your friend is really self conscious about her nose, and when you said that she was hurt, so decided to get back at you by saying you had a big belly.
i think everyone [including the parents] just got caught up in the moment. her mom was probably trying to protect her daughter, but she went about it in the wrong way.
i personally think it's unnecesary to point out things such as people having big bellys, or big noses, or anything that is hurtful to someone else. i mean now your friend is probably looking in the mirror every five seconds, comparing her nose to others people noses, trust me, people told me i had a big nose and to get a nose job, and i cried, now i'm so self conscious about it.
maybe the next time you see her you guys can patch things up and give her a compliment.
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What your friend said was not rite but you also said a rude thing to her and Her mom had no rite to say that either parents are supposed to be mature not a little baby.
Hope i helped hun
~Jenna~
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