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what to do..
ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?
i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you.
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Well he may be sensetive BUT TALK TO HIM before you break it off. Tell him he doesnt need to be jealous, and that he doesnt need to worry about you being with anyone else or anything. Make sure you reassure him, you know?
If you dont think it will work then yeah.. you shouldnt lead him on. But if you really want it to work you have to be able to communicate, even if it is awkward at times.
good luck.
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Just tell him that your young and you want to be with him but you want time to have a life also. And that youve never done ne thing to disprove his trust so he can trust you
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Just because of how long you two stay together doesn't mean you need to break it off. If he's too clingy, sit him down and talk to him about how you feel. tell him that you really like him, but he doesn't need to check up on you all the time. Tell him you'd like it if he gave you some space just like you do to him. Good luck && hope i helped.
-TORi
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ok well i dont know why you think it sounds like you need to break up because thats not what it seems like. it DOES seem like you need to talk to him and let him know that you love him and you would never do anything behind his back like cheat on him.that should give him a hint that your getting a little tired of him having to ALWAYS no where your at and what your doing.hope i helped XoXo
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um.. this is a hard situation... i can tell just from reading how you feel bout this... im not totally absolutely 100percent sure bout what im about to say (because, heck im not you) but i would probably handle your situation in this way...
Take a moment and look into his eyes and basiclaly tell ureself whether he's worth it. ask yourself if what he's doin to you by being so.. knowitall-y is worth ure stress. i have a feeling you dont wann alet this guy go because heck its great to have sum1 to care about you. I know how you feel, and i know how a breakup could wreck more than just a kick-ass relationahip... i cant help u more than just tell you to decide what's best for yoursel... be proud of yourself for finding such a great guy tho. few men out there are as caring as yours is (even if it almost seems near-stalkerish kinda jealous sumtimes, its actually just a man's way of showing he cares)
and no. just because uve been going out for a good chunk of over halfayear does NOT mean you should break it off. i think its great actually. if any reason you decide to break it off with him eventualy, i hope its not because you feel you went out with him 4 2 long.
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In my honest opinion I wouldn't break it off with him. One reason is because in the future you'll most likely regret doing it because other men, guys, boys are so much worse I can't believe you have a boyfriend like that he sounds very sweet I would kill to have one like that. (I do but I don't it's kinda confusing) Just don't do anything that you will regret in the future because you will have a hard as hell time trying to find a guy like that and trust me when your older you'd probably want one just like him. I think you should stick with him I mean you guys have been going out for 7 months that's a long time. If you felt this feeling you had before I think you should have broken it off before it got real serious, ya know? Because now if you break up with him it's going to hurt like hell to him. I think the reason why you keep forgetting to do it is because deep down you don't want to do it or you just forget because when you hang out with him you forget about everything (that's a good thing). I mean if you saying he's gorgeous, sooooo sweet, who cares about sensitive that's how you know he won't cheat on you in the future. <<-- Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't and if I was a little harsh :.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Well what I THINK you should do before you break up with him (since it seems like you really like him and he really likes you) is to tal kto him and say "Maybe we shouldnt talk as often you know as a good thing because if you call me all the time what will there to be to talk about next time?" and see what he says to that. But if you really TRUELY feel that you really wanna break up with him, then you should do it really really soon because the longer you wait, the more he'll get attached to you and thats not fair to hm because you dont feel the same way. But it seems to me that you like him a lot and too much to break up with him so just talk about not talking as much as a POSITIVE thing. I'm sorry if this didnt help :(
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You really like him, don't you?If you really like him, don't break up with him.And about your problem, you just have tell him that.And anyway, you're lucky, because your boyfriend really cares about you..He doesn't want you to get hurt, I think that's why he calls and texts you when you're not with him.He really really cares!!Just tell him that's he's too protected, he'll understand..Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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i understand you and your whole situation but look at it this way you could have a whole lot worse cause he couldve turned out to be one of those guys that didn't give damn about shit so basically you r lucky i say stay don't break it off cause if you do you will be wanting him back and you will regret and it is hard to find a good man so even though he does a lot of things to annoy you just tell him how you feel about it
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You don't want to break up with him, it means that you like him, deep inside your heart.
That's okay if he's jealous or sensitive, it just means that he loves you so much and does not want anybody else to be with you... In this case, you just need to prove him that you're loyal and you'll never betray him. He will probably understand. And hey, type of boy like him can be trusted. Well, you love him, and he loves you, the only thing that's missing is understanding... You should just talk to him if he really drives you insane. Just tell him to trust you.
Hope it will help you. I wish for the best luck for you and your boyfriend.
FCelcia
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It probably means that you havn't broken up with him because you have feelings for him, real ones. It's ok if he is sensetive and acts a bit over-protective and gets jealous sometimes. It might be annoying, but I'm sure if he didn't care at all or anything like that, then you'd want him to be like that. A lot of guys, heck even me, are sensitive. Not a big deal. Tell him what you wrote, the part about not expecting him to do all of that. You should try to be open and tell him all that you feel, because thats crucial for any friendship or relationship. I'm sure he will understand, and will probably make an effort to change for the better. Good luck with that.
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i think you should juss talk to him about it. i'm sure that if you juss said what you juss typed he'll understand and step back a bit. i dont think you should break up with him yet because he seems like a great guy. i rather have a guy be jealous then him not care at all. you know what i mean? juss talk to him, he'll understand.
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