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i cant help it
its hard to say that my golden years are gone and i have to help my family do stuff witch i dont care about that but when something happens to me i cant tell my mom what im feeling because my mom would tell the world so i want to depend on my friends but im ganna move because im ganna loose the house well not me but my parents i cant do anything to help but i cant fall on anyone to help me and my only cloose cloose friend is kayliegh and she likes my 17 year old brother but has never mate him or said 1 word to him so thats the problem i dont know if shes just useing me to get close to scott im not sure i dont know if i can fall on her without getting hurt.im a 13 year old girl and im interrested to boys not girls
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You are thirteen??!!! Me too!!! Maybe we can be friends!!!
Well... you are still thirteen, that's all the matter. You don't have to do anything for your family's finace. Your jobs are to go to school, be a good student, be a good daughter, and that's all. You don't have to think about anything else than that. To help your family, you just only have to do your jobs, and nothing else.
If you don't want to get hurt, it means that you're not ready to have a friendship from the first time. I have been hurt so badly by my bestfriends, and I'm okay with that, even though I was really hurt inside. That's because I knew that it would happen one day. Maybe you should ask her if she's just using you. Does she always talk or ask about your brother when you guys are chatting?? If she does, then she's just using you. Or maybe, if she has been your bestfriend before she knew that you have a brother, she's your bestfriend.
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It sounds like you need someone to talk to, and probably someone that you don't doubt. Have you ever thought about seeing a counsellor? Or even joining a chat room or message board for young people with similar problems?
At thirteen, you may feel that a big part of your life is over. It's true that getting older means taking on more responsibility. But you should remember that however old you may feel, you are still thirteen.
At that age, you are not responsible for your family's finances. If you might need to move, that is not your fault. You are right in saying that there's nothing you can do to help - after all, your job is to attend school and be a teenager. You CAN offer emotional support to your family, but you also need to make sure that you are getting support from someone.
There are free helplines you can call if you just want to talk.
As far as Kayliegh goes, was she your friend before she met your brother? Or did she like him and then latch onto you?
If you are doubting whether she is a true friend or not, you probably have a reason to do so. There ARE other people to talk to, if you are brave enough to open yourself up to them.
Best of luck.
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It is really hard to figure out if a person is using you, and it just seams easyer to assume that they aren't. You could ask her, but of coarse she would say that she wasn't. So have a friend of her's ask her if she is then have them tell you. She shouldn't realize that you know, all you have to do is ignore her if she is. Don't tell her that you know or you will get her friend in trouble, and that would be using. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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