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need to move on
me and my ex have been broken up for 5 months now but I cant seem to get over him.
We happen to have a class together and we sit next to eachother (seeting chart). Well we didn't talk the first week we were in that class then on Friday he started talkin to me. And ever since then we've been flirting. I know that we will not get back together, but he confuses me sometimes because he starts the flirting at times. Then we both happen to have 1st lunch and there's this girl who is all over him and that when I first experienced jelousy, I wanted to rip her face off and smash whatever is left on the ground. I don't like to feel jelousy because I want to get over him. I just dont know what to do.
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if you want get over him i say start talking to and flirting with other guys it took me a year and some time to get over my ex im over him now and he and i are friends.but if you dont want to get over him and you want him back just tell him how you feel and maybe most likely he feels the same way too.depending on why yall broke up if yall want and if still have feelings 4 each other yall should get back together
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Hmm first since you do sit next to him and get a chance to talk, write everything that you just wrote on a piece of paper and have him read it - or just simply tell him. For all you know he could still be liking you and wanting to get back, but feel that you don't feel the same as him. You need to be honest and let him know what you think and how you feel so that he can do the same. Don't give up on him just because of that girl. Give it some time and give him a chance to sort out his feelings and everything. Don't expect the worst for when you tell him. He might actually feel the same way, he went out with you before, so why not again. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Ai, I'm feeling the same thing. When I learned that my crush had already had her first kiss (Truth or Dare, but still, it was a kiss) I was soooo jealous and I wanted to... well, you pretty much took the words out of my mouth. On Full House, one time Jesse was flirting with a random waitress to make Becky jealous. Yeah, the waitress punched Jesse in the stomach, but afterwards, Becky admitted that it was the worst split-second of her life and she wanted to claw that waitress's eyes out. So basically that's what I'm feeling and that's what you're feeling. I'd say the way to get over him is to just tell him that you can't get back together. And as for that other girl, try to ignore her. Or, rip her face of and smash whatever is left of it on the ground =P Just kidding. But still. I actually don't mind true jealousy because it reminds me so much of true love. Which is the best thing in the world. So just think about love. Hope I helped!
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You will get over him, I promise. You just miss what you had. When he flirts, tell him "Don't talk like you're my boyfriend. We'll never be together again." And jealousy is quite normal. Just don't actually rip her face off and smash whatever is left on the ground. If she really is "all over him", that's her business, she can make herself look like a prostitute if she wants. If he's all over her as well, then he's a jerk and he'll dump her too. Please forgive my assumption that you were dumped, that may very well not have been the case. Though it's normal to miss him and feel jealousy, you're right, after five months it is time to move on. Try doing something else in your life, like walking or gardening or writing. Anything to keep your mind off of him. Maybe you could try dating again, but you're probably not ready for that and it isn't fair to whoever you date that you're still thinking about your old boyfriend. But you can go on group dates with friends, that's always fun. And who knows...one of your friends might bring along a single guy who will make you totally forget the old one. Life goes on, sweetie. Go with it. =)
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flirting is ok but when that over girl comes just walk away and if she calls you names just egnore her shes just flirting to get to you but still talk to your ex and be friends because us girls can be biches
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There isn't much you can do about jealously except try and try again to move on and forget about it. If this kid is flirting with other girls in front of you, or when he knows that you are there..he either wants you to notice him more, or he doesn't care about the way you feel. If he doesn't know that you like him tho, he isn't do anything wrong. So make sure that if you want him to know, that you tell him you like him! Then see if he still flirts with other girls and see whether or not he acts differently towards you (in a good way.) A lot of guys with flirt with girls just b/c they are pretty, not b/c they like them or want to go out with them! Find out what is going on with him, and figure out who he likes! I know it's hard to get over someone, but if they don't like you anymore..it's the only thing you can do. And the only way you can find out if he likes you or not, is to ask him! So do it, and don't be afraid to!
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