well...okay. One time i talked to this guy that i had never met b4, and he was pretty cool. and the more we started talking the more i liked him. And one of the things we talked about was his GF had broken up with him. And i thought well...maybe we could online date...after we get to know each other...and now i talked to him agian yesterday and he said hes found a new gf. and shes awesome and tall and stuff. And my ? is...should i still try to flirt with him and stuff to get him to like me? or stay there as a friend? or what??i REALLY like him too!!! HELP!
MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday August 13 2005, 3:12 pm: I think you guys should just defientley stay friends.. because even if he did break up with his girlfriend? Online dating really isn't a good idea.. I mean have you ever seen this guy's picture? ( even if it really IS his picture ) he could be like a 50 year old guy for all you know...and we don't need another missing girl on the news. And also if he just got a girlfriend, I don't think he's gonna break up with her soon, and also she's like right there. This is what happened with this guy I met on the internet too. I REALLY liked him, but I got over it in like two seconds because I was like," psh even if he did like me, it wouldn't work out.. I mean, I'd never see him he's like states away! That's just really stupid.." and who knows what he'd do behind your back anyway if you did date? I mean, you're not there at all to see what he's doing with who whenever he's not on the computer..who knows who he's talking to while he's ON the computer! =/ It'd be best just to be friends, I mean you can flirt and see what happens, but I just don't think anything's gonna happen.. sorry. I hope I helped! =/
VainTaraLynn answered Saturday August 13 2005, 2:13 am: If you havent met him in person, honestly, I wouldnt even waste your time. I dont mean to sound harsh but it almost seems like your going to set yourself up for a heartbreak, about 90% of online relationships dont work out. =( [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
2cute4u answered Friday August 12 2005, 6:11 pm: no sweetie you should not try to flirt with i think you should just stay there as a friend or just leave him a lone even though you some people just aren't worth and if he couldnt see how much you liked him then its great that he got a new girlfriend .just continue to be his friend [ 2cute4u's advice column | Ask 2cute4u A Question ]
blondiie2 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 11:17 pm: omg you shouldnt even think bout going out with someone you dont even know and you never met person to person they could be like a child molester or something... but anyway.. i guess you cant flirt with them..
Supermanlover45 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 10:05 pm: I'd look at it this way would rather push him away by flirting with him or rather have something with him even if it's just friendship and not dating? Because I think he really likes the gal because he was bragging about her to you so yeah it might just push him away. I wouldn't flirt with him even if you really like him just stay friends and hopefully in the future he grows a liking to you himself with no help. (Meaning as in help as flirt with him to get him to like you more.) Hope I helped.
xomegaroni answered Thursday August 11 2005, 10:02 pm: i wouldnt push anything on him, because that could push him away. i dont think you'd like it if your boyfriend had some girl flirting with him. juss let him know how you feel and let it go. only do that when hes single. dont totally give up but dont flirt with him. juss wait it out.
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