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um...how do i tell her?
alright, i HATE my church. there is this girl rachel who is like...really mean to me. she even locked me in a suply closet once. i want to go to a diffrent chruch. every time i tell my mom that rachel is mean she just says i need to have a better attitude. rachel even told everybody that i was a slut. so now no one likes me. how do i tell my mom i want to go to another church?
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First thing you need to do is tell your mom EVERYTHING that Rachel is doing to you. And let her know ALL that you need to, including what's on here. Then tell your youth pastor and/or pastor. Let them know it all too. Then, I know that this is hard and it's going to suck like a mug but.... SCREW THEM ALL!!! Focus on God, that's why you're in church in the first part ain't it? Sit back, relax, and laugh in their faces. If they lay their hands on you, turn around and twist their arms into such a lock you and them will think it's about to snap. Or just slap it away and walk off. If you need to, leave the room. And in the process, like if it's during a sermon or something, really walk out. If it gets the pastor's attention, it'll do more, better. But like I was saying, screw 'em. And their words. And their thoughts. And their opinions. And their cliques. Don't worry about them. In fact, LAUGH AT THE FACT THAT THEY DON'T HAVE ENOUGH OF A LIFE TO LAY OFF YOU! Trust me, it's fun, funny, and it gets their attention. When you become no fun to pick on, they stop. But if they worsen, make a statement, and I mean that seriously. Yeah, just focus and the sermons and focus on God. Take worship to the next level and the extreme. I come from an Assembly of God church and a punk background so that means the jumping and the fun stuff. But if that just means closing your eyes and raising your hands, do it. During prayer, lean over in your chair and close your eyes. When you focus on Him and put all your problems on Him, He will take care of you. But first, you must trust Him with all your heart. Good Luck, Hope I Helped.
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Have you tried actually telling your mom what this girl has done to you? If you haven't, try that. Your mom may think it's just girl stuff until she realizes that this girl is being hurtful and putting you in danger.
Another option is to talk to your preacher or youth minister. They can both help you figure out how to best deal with the problem as well as intervene with the problem if necessary.
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Tell her that having a bad time at church may have long lasting effects on your religious decisions.
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dude tell that bitch off!! when shes a bitch to you just be like "fuck you man" then say something back to her..yea your in church..so what so is she and shes being a bitch so that gives you the right to be one right bak! dont be affraid to tell her off cause if you do shell most likely back off..shes only doing it cause she probibly thinks your a wuss (no im not saying you are) so just toughin up and tell her off!!
michelle<|3
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explain the whole thing to her!!!! jus like you did us!!
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Holy crap!!!!!!! I'd punch Rachel right in her fucking fat mouth!!!!!!! Why do you put up with that shit??? You DON'T need or deserve that. I'm astounded that you let it slide. Honestly, if *YOU* don't stick up for *YOURSELF*, don't be surprised if others don't. [That wasn't meant to be rude, just tellin' it how it is....]
I wish you the best!!
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