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Not Good At Starting Conversations
hello, im a guy and im 14. i have always been kind of quiet in school and stuff. i was just wondering, what should i talk about w/ girls? like i don't know what to say in person except like hi, how are you. and on line i just say hey, whats up, and then the conversation kind of goes quiet, i need real help.
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Talk like you'd talk with anyone else! Girls aren't that different.
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ohhhh god those hey whats up nm....*nothing* convos get soo old and annoying just find a girl your comfortable with talking to, bring up a random subject and go with it and hope she goes with it to, and if shes a bitch and and is like "ummm w/e" then shes not the right girl and you shouldnt waste your time if there in a sport ask them hows it goin and bring up sports related subjects it all depends on the girl and dont be afraid to talk about your self but not to much cause then you get annoying and look like an ass
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don't be afraid! i'm serious. when you think "ahh if i say that then people will think i'm weird and it's totally out of context" then that kills the conversation. just say whatever comes to mind, even if it's weird and nonsensical. just do it. don't be scared.
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Hey dude I got the same problem most of the time. Just be random and spontanious. But not too random. You can try talking about the day or week or whatever may be going on in school or your life. It's pretty easy. Hey and also you can try this word game I learned from a friend of mine while we were talking (friend was a girl).
First you should explain the game (which will be easy after you read this). This game is meant to make you think and to find out more about the other person, and it is a very good way to keep the conversation going. Alright you need to first pick a person to go first (doesn't matter which) and then the person who goes first will pick a question about anything (examples could be favorite color, favorite food, favorite day, Do you like to do *such and such*) and then the person who is asking will count down from 5, using a line per number. Then when 0 is reached both of you type your answer and can talk about it, laugh, or go onto a new subject with the answer (see if can generate new conversations!). Then the person who asked will switch with the person who didn't ask, so it is vice versa. So it goes on and on and can leads to you talking about whatever with her! Hope I helped dude. Good luck!
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The trouble is that everyone seems to think that the opposite sex is different somehow. Well, not when it comes to conversation! Just talk to them about the same things you would talk to the guy friends about. General things (not look at the boobs on that one type stuff). Just start talking. Music, school, friends, sports etc. :)
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a lot of guys struggle with this problem so your not the only one! start by talking to a girl that your close to and dont have any feelings for at all. look at the things you talk about, sports, friends, school ect. Then take that to the next level and start a conversation with someone your interested in. Whenever you talk to a girl ask her what she does for fun and then let the conversation go from there! trust me it will last long and she'll see a side of you that you probably didnt even know exsited! good luck hun!
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See if you can find a common interest with the girl you're talking to. A movie you both saw, the awful english assignment the whole class is groaning about, or the new CD that just came out are all good starting points. Good luck.
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Well, if you really want to talk to a girl, talk about school. After you say hi on line, ask her if a question on how the day went. Girls love when the guys listen. She would go on on what the day went and you can agree and maybe relate!!
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okay. well. this happens a lot with a lot of people. its kind of natural. well okay, 01. if you become friends with the girls first, then you'll have more to talk about. 02. the more you talk to them, the more conversations will come up. & like, talk about your intrests. dont by shy or quiet. thats no way to get through life!! & are you going into high school? because if you are its a awesome way to meet new people!
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compliment girls, they love it. also if you dont feel confortable with that yet, ask them about homework, what they got on their math test and basicall talk about school. I know it's cheasy, but it works. ask how their summer went and what they did. be interested in what they like and bring up movies our songs you like. dont forget to look into their eyes when you talk to them!
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just talk to girls the same way you talk to guys! we dont care what we talk about..so just bring up a random conversation about anything! lol!
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Well, ask about their summer vacation. Ask about how many brothers / sisters they have. Ask if they take any sports. Ask their favorite color. Talk about their favorite sport. Ask them what songs they like. The possibilities are endless.
Hope I helped,
Bunny
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Not Good At Starting Conversations? Nobody is perfect. We all have our flaws. So dont sweat it! Well its summer. Ask about summer how its going. Talk about how it sucks school is starting up soon. Or maybe ask her if she was in summer school. What class she took. Etc. Or trips during the summer. Ask her about her. Her favorite color. What she does for fun. Weather or not she's in a sport. If she drives. What kind of car she has if she does drive. Dont worry so much and try to be more confident in yourself.
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Hi! you shouldnt be quiet!.. just talk to the girls like you would talk to anyone else...and if you like one of the girls then just try to smooth it off like why kinda guy do you like? you get what im saying? But in person just act crazy!! haha!! But hope my help works!
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For me when I talk to a guy especially online I just love to laugh so i think that you should act yourelf and start talking ask how her day was, her plans for the weekend, tell her yours, talk about your summer, ask her questions like her favorites, just be your self try to be funny but do not act corney haha sorry, thats all i can think of ask about her favorite song dont worry if the convo dies just be like i ran out of stuff to say and she will proabbly say something...hope i helped...!LiveStrong!....rate....
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