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OK i really need help...I really want to have sex and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend, I've already had sex before so it's no big deal or anything but how should I tell him? We have been going out for 9 months and I just can't wait any longer
please tell me what to do
P.S. we are 13 and where should we have it without our parents noticeing
I WILL rate 5's for no one who bitches to me about how young we are im just sooooo god damn horny all the time
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Even tho I think you are a bit young for sex its your choice so I'm not going to lecture you about it. If he wants to have sex he would of mention something about it? Is he the shy type and has he ever wanted head/blowjob from you? Well if you havent done any of it try going slowly with him. Maybe he just isnt ready? Or he might be waiting until marrige. You should defenetlly talk to him tho and ask him. He is the only one who can give you the right answer and exacly what you're looking for. But if you do end up having sex.. please just use a condom and be safe! =) [[ ♥ ]]
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Aren't you a lil young for having sex?
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Sex is always a big deal. If it wasn't, you wouldn't be asking us how to talk to him about it. It may not be the same kind of big deal that most people make it out to be, but it's still an activity that that has the potential to change your life every single time it occurs. There are diseases, pregnancies, and crazy social repercussions.
There are plenty of ways to enjoy sexual activity with another person without intercourse. Many of them involve orgasm. If you've already been engaging in these activities, then suggest intercourse the same way you suggested the other ones. If your not, and need suggestions, ask me. I've got 15 years experience on you.
Don't forget about condoms - even for oral sex. Since it's so hard to find dental dams, cut the tip off a flavored condom and cut it up the side to get a rectangle that you can place over your vulva before he eats you out. Latex barriers are your best protection against disease. They don't prevent all STDs, but they go a long way. And they're helpful in preventing pregnancy too.
Remember, masturbation is a good way to deal with being horny. For starters, you don't have to wait on someone else being around. And generally, I tell anyone who doesn't know how to approach the topic of sex with their significant other that there's a really good chance that their relationship is not ready for it.
Best of luck.
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what the heck you are 13 and you have already had sex i meen im 13 and i have not had sex that is just retarded!!!! i meen come on you are only 13 i know like 18 year olds who have not even had sex i meen OMG!!!!!!!!! gosh frikin idiot!
p.s. you don't have to rate me if you don't want to but still you 13 sex not good atlest use a condom but still you do not need to have sex at 13!!!! o and how old where you when you had sex for the first time? just out of curiosity!
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OK...I'm sorry and I know you don't wana hear it but I just gotta post! First off...'sex is no big thing'??? who are you kidding...sex is made to bring a relationship closer together and to create a living being...you ever think how awesome that actually is!?! Another thing, if you think you've been going out with each other long enough to have sex then you should be able to at least talk about it. I'd even say you should've talked about it a while before you actually have sex. Your bf might not be ready, as crazy as it sounds I think it's a possibility! I don't care how you rate me I just had to post...
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just talk to him about it. tell him that you guys have been going out a while, and you think that you guys are ready for it. it would kind of depend on if he had sex before, though. if he has, he'll most likely agree (i mean cmon, you're his girlfriend and ... guys want sex). if he hasn't then he might be a little hesitant and nervous. but just talk to him and reassure him that things just happen naturally and that it'll be fine (or whatever else you gotta say) lol.
hope i helped.
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you should talk about it with your b/f maybe he has the same feeling for you too...and asfor the place it would be best if your parents werent home or his parents something like that would be best
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well since youve already have had sex before where did you do it? if that gives any hints like if it was at school whatever just do it in the same place. and if yoyur super horny just give him a blow job or ask him to eat you out haha whatever! well when your 13 just remember that if your ready to have sex play it safe because u dont wanna get pregnant! and if he says that he doesnt wanna have sex dont dump him because that would be fucked up. good luck
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If you really don't wanna have your parents notice you should get out of the house. Hotel, outside, when your parents are out. The way to tell your bf is just say it. Guys get really horny all the time so he may not care. If he says no don't force him. Just masturbate when you get too horny.
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Your 13, you want to have sex with your boyfriend, and youve already had it before? Hunny, slow down. You have your whole life ahead of you to expirence things such as sex.
Maddie
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Everyone is ready at differant times, and only you know when you are so dont worry about when people on here say "oh your too young..". But anyways,Just talk to him about it, bring it up casually. You never know maybe he is in the same situation and doesnt know how to tell you. But, if he doesnt want to have sex yet, and wait longer, the only thing that you can do is respect his decision. And, if you truly are that horny, maybe do stuff with him but dont go as far as sex, if he doesnt want too. Whatever you do, Good luckk!<33
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take it from a guy's point of view (which would be me) If the guy hasent mentioned it to you, there's somethin going on. alot of the time, a 13 year y/o guy isnt focused on sex. it's a guy thing. oddly enough, 14 is the age where thats what a guy wants. Or he has thought about it, and he's not ready. normally, if a guy dosent mention it, there's 4 possible things that could be going on-
1.he's not ready for it.
2.he's scared of getting you preganate
3.he respects you and himself and thinks that it should be really special
4. he has strong christian morals going on.
#3 and 4 is the most popular in teenage guys, but like i said, when he wants it, he'll ask about it.
but as your question states, you obviously want 2 talk 2 him about it, so, just start by asking if he loves you, and if he thinks your relationship is going anywhere. dont just say, "do you want to have sex?" that might freak him out. just ask him " how would you feel/react if i said i wanted to MAKE LOVE to you?" then go from there....
as for the where you sohuld have it... there r many places...i donno...since your 13... see if you have a 16+ y/o friend that has a car. personally, 1 of my more daring (yet stupid) places was in a movie theatre. but only if it's not crowded, and no1 is within 5 rows of you...you cant take your cloths off ither. but maybe in the back of a friends car (if they dont mind), or sneak out at night (this requires money and your driver friend) and get your friend 2 get a hotel room. minors can't get the hotel themselves, so give them the money, and get them to book it for you.
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give him a blow job and if he accepts, then talk to him about it. Show some self restraint you horny little girl.
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well i feel you are kin dof young but if you really feel that connection then go for it.. umm i would start out kind of slow kiss him down his body and go down to his cock and suck it sloowly and go back up to him and kiss him andkind of slip it in as u go back up ( only if yall are nude tho in bed) and if that doesnt work or you dont feel comfortable then jsut talk to him abotu it.. it wont hurt
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Your boyfriend may not be ready for it... Talk to him. But if he doesn't want to, respect that. If you can't, find another guy who'll give you what you want.
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