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i think i like him ..
sorry if this is long but i really need help.
ok im 14 and i will be 15 september 13. this guy name tyler is 12 and will be 13 september 1. he is goin to 8th and im goin to 9th. he doesnt hang out with 12 year olds, he looks and hangs out with 14 and 15 year olds. we are really good friends, and tuesday night he asked me out but i said no. i like him, but i am scared to go out wtih him. i mean if we break up, then it will be weird. and he isnt really cute. but i like him alot. last night he got mad at me because he thought that i was gonna go out with this other guy, but im not! and then his mom told him to get off the phone and he told me he would call me back at 1 and he never did. he hasnt called or got online today either. i think hes still mad at me and i dont know what to do. i told him i didnt like the other guy but i dont think he believed me. what should i do?? should i go out with him if he asks me again? some people say i should and some people say heck no. i have no idea what to do!
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Do whatever you feel like doing. You can go out with him one time and if things are just to weird...say so. If not then have a good time and don't worry. No reason you can't remain friends if things don't work out. It may take time if one of you gets hurt but it will work out in the end. :)
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Hey. Ok, I can't tell people how long I have been preaching this, but you CAN NOT BASE A MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP ON LOOKS!! Age cannot be a major factor either, unless you are like in our 20's and he is still in his teens and it is banned by law. If you two break up, but have a relationship based on friendship first, then it shouldnt get weird. You have to keep the lines of communication open. Tell him that you were not interested in the other guy, and that he is the one you want to persue a relationship with. Just remember, you two are two years apart. You are both emotionally and physically more mature than him, keep that in mind if you two try to move forward. Don't go too fast, and you may end up lasting much longer. Keep friendship your first priority! Good luck.
Best Wishes, Jordan
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well first of all it doesnt matter what age he is as long as your on the same maturity level. you probably upset him when he asked you out especially if you were around his friends ect. my best advice would be give it a try i mean hey what do you have to lose! but always remember that if you two are good friends if you break up your friendship will never be the same again! good luck!
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Ok.first all i wanna say age aint nothing but a number. It reminds me of when i was 14 and the boy i liked was 12. UntiLL i turn 15 and now he is 13 and we are going out, and our relationship is Great. So since you like that Boy i say go for it, but when you talk 2 him again just explain to him that you is not gunna date someone else. i wish you LucK!
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looks dont matter hun.. and age is just another. go out with him. he might be a great boyfriend. You never know unless you take a chance. Call him when you think the time is right and ask him out. And tell him that you said no because you didnt want to ruin a great friendship. Just take the chance. He might be a great guy.
Hope I helped!
Sincerely,
Abby <3
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i dont think age should matter...especially in this case...but just tell him you dont want to ruin the friendship...or tell him you like him and you will only go out with him on that one condition.
♥BLAiR
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well if you like him a lot and your scared to break up and having the ocward ness then u might as well never go out. If you like him spend the time with him that you have until you actually do break up so yea talk to him and if he askes you out or if you ask him out say yes. dont waist good moments because your worried about being ocward after the breakup when thats so far away.
<3 simone
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yeh, if he aint cute, he ain in for da cut!
i rec u bess leev him b. he 12, u be eetin rice. git .
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