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On Top

Question Posted Friday October 13 2006, 6:10 pm

I'm a virgin. I'm 15. Every time i talk to my boyfriend about sex, he wants me to be on top. I guess because he's really tall this is more comfortable for him. But for my first time, I think it would be a little weird to have to make all the moves, considering he's NOT a virgin. I'm afraid about being on top for my first time. I'm afraid that once I feel pain I'll tense up and pull him out of me....that would me a totall mood killer...I don't even know what my question is..I guess I'm just looking for comments or what not.
-Yes, I am ready for sex so telling me I must not be ready isn't going to be any help to me-
(I'll add adittional information later if anyone needs me to)

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guitarplayer3210 answered Sunday October 15 2006, 12:00 am:
you can always tell him to start on top and switch later or just tell him to keep doing what he is doing also a bit of a confedence booster

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Melody answered Saturday October 14 2006, 9:34 pm:
Tell him you would be more comfortable with him on top, taking into account that you are a virgin and this is your first time. You're actually supposed to have sex in the missionary position, ESPECIALLY your first time. It'll be more comfortable for you and for him, really.

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Mandy1166 answered Saturday October 14 2006, 6:44 pm:
If you dont think you will feel comfterble on top for your first time tell him. Once your used to it you could try beeing on top

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piglet answered Saturday October 14 2006, 3:06 pm:
well iv read the other answers and im not going to tell u to go on the bottom i just want to say talk to your boyfriend about how yuor feeling about being on top and with it being your first time im sure he will understand (if he no's) but i will tell you when me and my boyfriend of 2years first had sex i went on top and i did have to do all the work he did alot of it aswel good luck hope this helps

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MummuM answered Saturday October 14 2006, 12:15 pm:
I agree with you. Being on the bottom your first time is the right position. It's might be weird and uncomfortable being on top, especially if its your first time. Since you're comfortable with your boyfriend, just explain this to him. Tell him that you won't be comfortable with being on top. You'd like it much more if you were on the bottom. I'm sure if you explain to him how you're feeling, he'll understand and will go on top. You just have to talk to him about this.

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DiNOxTHUNDER answered Friday October 13 2006, 8:59 pm:
talk to your boyfriend.if you guys are really ready to commit to sumthing like this,you need to be able to talk to each other.if you don`t want to make the first moves,then make the moves together,start making out and then just let some things lead to others.tell him that you want your first time to be special,and it would make you happier if you were on bottom.and don`t worry about tensing up.try foreplay to get you warmed up and not so nervous.good luck,and keep it simple.=]

PS.make sure to be safe!

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xogiggles37xo answered Friday October 13 2006, 8:56 pm:
being on the bottom is best for your first time. like you said being on top means doing more work. let him know that. he must know your a virgin right?

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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Friday October 13 2006, 8:38 pm:
I would totally recommend you being on the bottom!

Just tell him exactly what you wrote are completely right about what you were saying.

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