13/f. is it totally weird i get "urges" a lot. i'm only 13 but i always feel kinda "sexual". like, this might weird but i have this little stress ball and sometimes i use it as a sex toy. is this really bad? i'm gonna wait till i get married of course. but sometimes i feel bad cause i do that, or think about sex. i need some advice guys! thanks!
Melody answered Wednesday October 18 2006, 9:34 pm: your thirteen, so these urges will only get worse as you grow :]
it's totally fine though, so don't think it's weird to masturbate. it's good you want to wait, & i hope you stick to that. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
Dozzer answered Tuesday October 17 2006, 9:58 am: Welcome to Puberty. It is perfectly ok to start exploring your body. Just be sure that stress ball is clean, or atleast don't let anybody else use it =P [ Dozzer's advice column | Ask Dozzer A Question ]
piglet answered Monday October 16 2006, 2:38 pm: i think it's good that you want to wait till you'r married you don't hear very meny 13yr old's say that anymore not that in jujing it i very normal for you to get urges it's very very comen it's not bad that maturbate if that what you do (with ball) it's very naturl
karisue answered Sunday October 15 2006, 10:04 pm: at age 13 your hormones are going crazy, so it's basically normal to be horny & to masterbate.
if you feel guilty about it because you are against sexual things such as masterbating, then try to overcome this feeling. such as read a book, watch television, or even go out with your friends. anything to occupy your mind will help you fight these 'urges' [ karisue's advice column | Ask karisue A Question ]
MummuM answered Saturday October 14 2006, 4:31 pm: A lot of people are doing what you're doing. You aren't a bad person because you do this. Everyone goes through this stage where they experiment with stuff, such as masturbating and thinking about sex all the time. That's what happens when your hormones are going out of control. But you have nothing to worry about. This is completely normal and healthy. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
AskNicolethtsme answered Saturday October 14 2006, 3:13 pm: I do think it is normal... i mean people at mah skool talk and think about i am sure especially when they have a girlfriend or someone that they really like... i also do the same thing except for the stress ball... but seriously it is good to wait till marrige but it is normal to do the things u do... [ AskNicolethtsme's advice column | Ask AskNicolethtsme A Question ]
queenhearts answered Saturday October 14 2006, 6:17 am: Nope it's not weird. It's normal! Healthy. It's not bad, it's not hurting you.
A lot of people your age do that and think about sex too. Blame your horomones.
DiNOxTHUNDER answered Saturday October 14 2006, 3:36 am: dont worry about it at all.its completely normal and natural.alot of people do it.its called hormones.and at this time they are rushing around like crazy.you arent doing anything wrong at all.continue doing it as much as you want.you wont go to hell or jail.lol.ya ur fine hun.=D [ DiNOxTHUNDER's advice column | Ask DiNOxTHUNDER A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Saturday October 14 2006, 3:25 am: Everyone thinks about it. It is completely normal to think about it. You don't have to feel out of place because everyone goes through the same thing even if they are 13. The best thing is to find something in your spare time that you love to keep your mind off of it for a while. But it is normal to think about it and have urges.Don't feel bad that you do because it is normal for a woman to feel that way. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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