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Possible infection?

Question Posted Friday October 13 2006, 10:45 pm

A little less than two weeks ago a guy scratched me when he was fingering me. It was really painful for a couple of days,sore for another few days, and then the pain went away. But this afternoon it was really painful again, and I'm assuming that it relates to incident two weeks ago.
I know it's stupid but I am really embarassed to talk to my parents about this, so I was wondering if anyone has any similar experience and knows what to do.
Thank you.

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karisue answered Sunday October 15 2006, 6:03 pm:
my best advice to you is of course to see a doctor. but if you are really embarrassed to talk to your parents about this, then i'm sure you wouldn't want to ask them to take you to the doctor, im assuming.

so basically, let it heal. don't touch down there, don't masterbate, & don't let him finger you. & if after a few days there still is a pain, i would definately try & see a doctor. maybe a friend would take you there instead of your parents.
good luck

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BitsandPieces answered Saturday October 14 2006, 11:11 pm:
Only a doctor will be able to give you an exam and treatment if necessary. If you notice anything abnormal besides the pain, it definately needs to be checked out. Doctors will be confidential, and you can even see one anonymously at a free clinic. If you are sexually active, then you can get free protection there, too. Don't ever let a potential health concern go due to embarrassment. Your body and health are very important. No one should be scratching you, so take measures to prevent that from happening again. Two weeks is a long time to suffer for "a guy" who obviously was not careful. You don't have to tell your parents about the specifics, but you need to tell them that you are having a pain and need to see a doctor. The doctor can then talk to you privately.

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DiNOxTHUNDER answered Friday October 13 2006, 11:31 pm:
like any other scratch or cut,the area you injure will be sensitive for a while.well this area is particularly sensitive,so i would expect it to be sore for a,you may have just reopened or irritated the cut,which made it sore could talk to your doctor,but i doubt you wanna do i would just wait a little while and be very careful,and see how it goes.if its still sore you can call a doctor or make an appointment.but honestly i think you will b fine.good luck. =] not sure if you can use things like neosporin in that area,so check the package for warnings and directions if you are going to before using it.

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