I'm the kind of girl who always though suicide was horrible and whoever even thought about it was physco. All my parents do is call me worthless and a f**king bitch and telling me to move out and my dad would even say he hopes I die. I get blamed for everything in this house and get told that I'm a lazy piece of s**t. They treat my little brother like he's perfect and can do no wrong. He can stay home from school when he wants and end up doing whatever he wants even though he stayed home. I stayed home on a 4 hour school day and now I'm grounded and not allowed to do anything. Everytime I want to talk to my mom about how I'm feeling she just goes on about how I'm a disrespectful b**ch and she tells me to move out. I told her I wanted to move out and now she won't let me and she said if I go anywhere she'll call the police on me and she'll send me away because she doesn't care. There's so much more to the story but I don't know what to do anymore. This has been happening to me for a long time and I cry at least everyday and I just want to kill myself now because I can't take this anymore. Does anyone have any advice? pleaseeee
killerkittens11 answered Saturday October 14 2006, 2:32 pm: your being abused, verbally. dont kill yourself go to the police. they will take you away from that horrible place and put you somwhere where people will love you. lots of people are going to tell you that youre overeacting, but ignore them. you are NOT overeacting. [ killerkittens11's advice column | Ask killerkittens11 A Question ]
DiNOxTHUNDER answered Friday October 13 2006, 8:09 pm: please.don`t even talk about killing yourself.i tried before once when i thought there was no way for anyting to get better.it was the worst thing i ever did.and it really opened my eyes.but about your parents.wow.it seems like they dont care about you. you really need help.if you have any really good friends,see if you can stay with them for a little bit.if you don`t,you can call child services and they care temporarily put you in a foster home.i know it doesn`t sound great,but it could help.they can find you a could home with parents that care alot about you.good luck and if you EVER need anyone to talk to,even tho im only 13,im a great listener,and you can talk to me ANYTIME.=] [ DiNOxTHUNDER's advice column | Ask DiNOxTHUNDER A Question ]
dorksrusxoxo answered Friday October 13 2006, 7:44 pm: You said your fifteen right? well the real qusetion is do you like living there. Once you are thirteen legally you can choose where you want to live. Do you have a bestfriend, a grandma, you could live with them. However, before you go and do that try to get you family into some type of consiling. They have lots of programs for familys like yours. Hey, if you need anymore help e-mail me at jellybeanoxox@hotmail.com or messange me at jellybeanoxxo on aim. byeas [ dorksrusxoxo's advice column | Ask dorksrusxoxo A Question ]
XkittyOkatX answered Friday October 13 2006, 7:15 pm: Just know, before I say anything, there are plenty of people out there who would care and probably want to die themselves if you did that to yourself. Things will get better. They may get worse for a little, but as your parents see what you're obviously feeling if you're crying all the time, they're probably going to realize what they're doing.
If not (if they're ignorant, can't see it, that mean) you need to talk to them, or get someone to talk to them, because no one should have to feel this way. Try pouring out to them about how you feel, try to write a note, and make sure you include that you understand their point of view.
If they keep treating you like this, though, see if you'd be able to stay with a relative or something.
Just remember, there are so many people who care about you, and you're even fifteen, so you should be able to be out soon enough, anyway.
Really, feel free to email me to keep me posted. I'll honestly and sincerly write back and try to help my best. xo_graziano_ox@hotmail.com
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