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yeah, i'm laura.
freshman, 14 almost 15.
idk what else to say..

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So I heard this song a while ago on the radio. I have no idea what it is called and I cant even think of the words so i want to hear it. It is an older country song and it talks about all the things in a good country song! It is really funny song so I hope thats enough ifo to figure out what it is but i cant find it and i tried to find it online but i cant seem to. So thanks a bunch if you know it!

the only song i can think of is "backwards" by rascal flatts, but it's not older. i would do what the other columnist said.

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Okay so my state (TN) has decided to mandate that every student K-12 get 90 minutes of excersize a week. Well they are using our homeroom time at my school to do just that. I think it is incredibly stupid because its not the school's responsibility to tell us what to do as far as excersizing goes. It is so damn retarded I can hardly stand it. I HATE coming to school now. OMG as if it wasnt bad enough LETS THROW IN SOME EXCERSIZE!!! Plus my homeroom teacher is strict with the rules, so if we dont do these excersizes every morning, she will write us up. I dont feel like I can talk to her because she wont understand. And I cant sit there and object while everyone else is doing it because that will draw negative attention to me. I get enough attention as it is for being fat. And thats not the reason I dont want to do the excersizes. It's just that 15 minutes is a long time for someone who is as heavy as I am and its embarassing to have my fat jiggle around for the whole freaking class to watch and laugh at. I would much prefer to excersize in PRIVACY where I dont have to worry about what I look like. High school is bad enough as it is. I think this is pure torture and I really want to refuse to do it. But I dont want to bring negative attention to myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? and what is your opinion on our new state law??

isn't that what gym class is for? you guys don't have that at your school? that's the gayest thing i've ever heard of.

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Is there a way that I can delete my advicenators account? I want to start a new one because I all the adivce on my page was given out by me 3 years ago. Understandably a lot has happened since then and I don't agree with all my adivce anymore...

this is the only way i know how..


http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=53

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is coffee bad for your brain? i heard that it can shorten your memory span. :/

i've never heard of that so probably not. the only thing i've heard is that is can stunt your growth which could maybe be linked to what you heard about memory span. but i'm not sure. caffiene can do all sorts of things to you.

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What happened: Me and three of my girl friends were going to go hand out with some boyysss. Me and "A" went to their houses early, because the "B" & "C" wanted dinner. ALso, "B" lent us her phone, since we both had ours taken away :/
So they started calling the phone, however we were in the guys's basement, so we didn't have service. Anyways, they think we just weren't picking up because there were a few outgoing calls, but that was on the walk over. Like when we left their house, we actually had like 10 new texts from B & C, being super mad. Anyways, they think that we just didn't write back to them because of the other calls, but it's really because we didn't have service.
I don't really get in fights with my friends a lot, so like how are we supposed to get over a fight. Like if I go to hang out with them, it'll be just awkward...

did you explain the situation to them? i'm sure they'll understand. if they don't, then hold that grudge. make them apologize to you. you tried to explain it once, don't give them any more chances. it's their fault for not trusting you. if they were really your friends, they wouldn't get mad over such a stupid thing and they would trust you. i would have asked why you didn't text back and be done with it. they're mad at you for it? that's so stupid. hopefully they'll come around but if they don't, oh well.

sorry i'm a little dramatic, i had a similar situation like this and it did not make me happy.

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hey im not here 4 advise i just stopped by to say hey. u type young though...im 14 but um what are uthough ithink we can be friends cuz im a friendly person until sum1 ticks me off

i type young..?
what am i..?
i'm pretty darn confused right now.

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i dont really pay attention to ratings because i just started but i gave someone a detailed answer and he gave me a 3. its not so much his rating its his comment:
Thank you for your answer. I would give you a 4 but you didn't capitalize. Otherwise it was a good answer.
what does capitalizing have to do with anything?

i don't capitalize. it's not a big deal really. but some people are grammar freaks and correct you if you do something wrong. my grandma is like that. it really shouldn't affect your rating, but like another person said, file an abuse report. (:

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Okay I saw my friend wear this really pretty skirt. I can't ask her where she got it because she's the type that would say "NO! DON'T COPY ME! IT'S MINE! BLAH BLAH" so I see no point in asking.
:/

It looked similar to this :
http://www.bombayharbor.com/productImage/0206223001144133162/Skirt.jpg

but it was a light red-pink color. A bit shorter. Dark shades going to lighter shades to the bottom. I think you call it a "tiered skirt" ?
It was also a bit frayed. [That's why I want it. I like it]

Has anyone seen it? I don't go out shopping much so I don't know what store would carry that kind of style of clothing.
Websites? Or have you seen anything similar to what I described? Maybe not exact color or length.
Thanks

i hate people like that! just ask her where she got it from and if she says "OMG! YOU COPY CAT!" be like "chill the fuck out!, i just like the skirt! i want it in a different color!" even if you do want the same color. i believe it's a free country and your friend isn't the only one allowed to wear that skirt.

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i get all my music from limewire.. but it seems like theres a few songs that will turn up millions of results, but NONE of them will download. it only does it for a couple songs, but does anyone else have this problem? how can i fix it?

i had that same problem too when i had limewire. it could be that the song is fairly new and there are no "good" downloadable versions on limewire yet. that was usually the case for me. you can't really fix it, you just have to wait until there's a better download. i'm not quite sure how long but probably around two weeks? hope i helped :D

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Does 93 pounds seem overwieght for a 12 year old female?

heck no. i'm 13 and i weigh like 106 and i
m definitley not overweight. that's a good weight for a 12 year old.

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are cameras allowed into the honda civic tour (fall out boy, +44, the academy is, and cobra starship)?



thank yyou!!

i think so. my friend went to it and she brought back tons of pictures. she told me she brought a disposable camera because she didn't know you if you were allowed to use digital ones. so yes, i'm pretty sure you can bring cameras.

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I saw a myspace layouts website mentioned on this site a while ago, and it was really great, but I forget what it was. I think it had 'myspace' and 'lyts' in the url but I'm not sure. The colours on the site were orange and green I think. It had codes, generators, backgrounds, and a few other things. It had contact buttons [like add, msg, stuff like that] with dancing cows, and ducks. I tried google and looked through at least 20 pages of results and couldn't find it. I tried searching this site too, but couldn't find the question it was in. It's not one of those like pimpmyspace or whatever, it's not flashy or anything. If anyone knows what I'm talking about I'll be so grateful, I'm desperate to find it haha, thank you.

that sounds like www.hot-lyts.com.

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Does anyone know any pop or rock songs that involve being imperfect? I wish that I could hear some things that relate... help?

Perfect by Simple Plan

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Im so confused.

Okay, In Pirate movie #2 Captain Jack Sparrow dies Righhhht?

Who comes back in the end?
Its the person from the 1st movie.

I dont get it, why does captian jack die?

Help pleasee!

oops, nevermind. my bad.

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ok it goes like this....

"girls like boys with cars and lots of money...." or something like that...
it came out like maybe in 2002 or 2003? im not quite sure which year. help?

"Girls & Boys" by Good Charlotte.

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in the 'about me' section of my myspace, i wanna make the font size bigger for certain things. how do i do that?

then type whatever you want here & it will be that size.

then when you want it to stop being that size, type.

1 is the smallest & i think 10 is the biggest.

hope that helps.

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Thanks for answering my UTI question earlier.
Do you have to have all the symptoms? The only one I have is always feeling like I have to pee especially if I drink something. I don't have to go to the bathroom like REALLLY bad but always feel like I have to just a little bit but if I drink something then I'll have to go really bad. Is that weird?

no, it's not weird. that happens to me sometimes. as for having all the symptoms, i don't really know. i would go to webmd.com or something & look up UTI's. or just google. sorry i can't be of much more help. ]: if you need anything else, feel free to ask. [:

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I think I might be getting a Urinary Tract Infection. I got one in 5th grade and it was awful. What are some early signs of one? And can I make it go away on my own? When I had one in 5th grade I had to go to the bathroom like REALLY bad every 5 minutes but now I just feel like I kind of have to go but not REALLY bad so I don't go to the restroom until like a few hours. Could I be getting one or am I paranoid about getting one? Or is it something else? Should I be embarrassed about telling people about this or is it normal to get one?

i had one last year when i was only in 6th grade so i know how you feel. it SUCKS. yes, it's normal. my doctor told me it's one of the most common things for girls to get.

some symptoms i had were:
-burning when you pee.
-when you pee, you get a really sharp pain in your stomach.

i think my doctor said they're caused by not going pee when you have to. aka, holding it in too long.

i'm thinking you're being a bit paranoid but you may still want to see a doctor if you're this worried about it.

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Alright so i like this kid and we have been friends for a pretty long time but just this week he broke up with his gf should i ask him out or give him time plus i dont know if he likes me and i like him alot..? Plzzz help

well there's a few things you need to take into consideration here.

1. how long were they going out?
2. were they in love?
3. how far did they go?

if they were going out for more than a month, i would give him some more time. you don't want to be his rebound girl. you want to make sure he's in it for real & not just because he wants to get over his ex-girlfriend. if they weren't going out for that long, you probably don't need to give him much time.

if they were in love, you deffinitley need to give him time. it's not like you can just stop loving someone overnight. that takes some time. if they weren't, he won't need as much time to move on.

if they went farther than kissing, then he needs time. if they didn't really do anything, then they obviously weren't that into each other & you can probably just jump right in. [:

however, you don't know if this guy likes you. i don't think he will right away because he just broke up with his girlfriend. just be more flirty around him & hang out with him more. but don't wait too long to make your move, trust me i've learned from waiting too long.

i would wait about another week. be more flirty with him & hang out with him more like i said before. then, you can either just flat out ask him out or ask one of your friends to ask him how he feels about you. it's your choice but i would just ask him out.


good luck & let me know how it goes. if you need anything else, drop one in my inbox. [:

EDIT;
if you don't want to ruin your friendship with him, just take it slow if you do end up going out. & when it's over, just make sure you stay friends.

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hi^_^
can you guys please tell me your favorite songs so i can download some new songs?
thaank you:)

oh god, i have a thousand favorite songs. here's a few. [:

Girlfriend by Avril Lavigne
Thnks Fr Th Mmrs by Fall Out Boy
Well Enough Alone by Chevelle
Godspeed by Anberlin
Dismantle. Repair. by Anberlin
Bang the Doldrums by Fall Out Boy
Makes Me Wonder by Maroon 5
How Long by Hinder
Stand by Rascal Flatts
In Fate's Hands by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Wow, I Can Get Sexual Too by Say Anything
Ocean Avenue by Yellowcard
Say This Sooner by The Almost
Before He Cheats by Carrie Underwood

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