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my boyfriend doesnt turn me on but i love him
me and boyfriend have been dating for over a year and we just started have sex, but he doesnt turn me i always fake my orgasms and i also dont know how to turn him on. i also think im a lesbian because i think of girls alot and guys dont turn me on but i love my boyfriend,how can i get turrned on by my boyfriend?
im 19
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You and Me. I think we share the same problem.
My friends told me that I've grown sick of my gf, or probably had too much of her. Too much for my own good.However, the difference btw us is that, you think of people of your own gender, and you get your kicks, while I don't.
So I figured that you might be going both ways.
And I also figured that it might only be lust for something like lesbian sex.
By now, you should know that your bf is probably very lucky. *smiles*
Why not? Just a thought.
A threesome. Maybe to spice up you and your bf's sex life.
Nothing wrong. It's like a sport.
=)
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well i have though about this question and couldnt come you with anythink but i think i mite have 1 idear if you and your bf are up for it witch i think you will try anythink because you say you love him why dont you try some sex toys, sex games, differnt sex moves and mayb try dressing up it dosent have to be a nerses outfit just by some sexy underwear that YOU feel sexy in do your hair and make-up
good luck hope it gose well for you
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over 70% of the women in the world don't orgasm during sex, mainly during oral.
i wouldn't fake my orgasms anymore, so maybe the harder he tries to actually get you one, the closer you will get.
as for turning you on, any foreplay will help with that. get him to perform oral sex on you, let him finger you, or even kiss your neck or ears, he'll like the fact that you're being forceful & you'll love when he does it.
i don't think you are a lesbian though. it's normal for girls to think about other girls. girls know exactly what other girls like & a womans body is basically the most beautiful thing god created. he gave woman more feature than guys. so its normal to contemplate your sexuality.
but good luck & i hope i helped
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well, sometimes you dont orgasm during sex bc your mabye uptight or nervous. i dont kno how much sex youve been having but before foreplay. its fun and really gets you in the mood and makes sex alot better. for the lesibean thing if you love your boyfriend its probably slim your a lesibien some girls have fantasys , i think its normal. so just go with that flowwwww =]
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Alot of girls are unable to orgasm whether they love their boyfriend or not.So don`t worry,you`re not alone.But if you really want to,try changing your techniques.Use new positions and foreplay always helps.You can just google positions,and a whole bunch of websites will pop up.As for foreplay,just make it fun.You could start by making out or oral or anything like that,and then just lead up to sex.Maybe by that time you will be warmed up and ready to go.Good Luck. =]
And as for the lesbian thing.Just follow your heart.You can`t help who you fall in love with.=D
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