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Question Posted Friday August 19 2005, 12:22 am

I've met this really great guy. We have so much in common and we became really good friends right off the bat, and we've been partying together ever since then. I'd totally date him, but he's 4 inches shorter than me!!! Do you guys think that he's still worth my time, or just dump the idea of hooking up with a shorty? (I'm 16 and he's 18, so he's not growing anymore either)

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BlackBeltxO answered Saturday August 20 2005, 7:32 pm:
If you really like him and you want to date him then dont worry about the height. Thats the thing about relationships. If you are going to worry about what other people think theres really no point in dating someone. But if you really want to be with this person then you would ignore the comments and love him just as much. It's your relationship with him, not you, him & everyone else. Follow your heart, not your eyes.

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goTango answered Saturday August 20 2005, 12:55 pm:
Im in EXACTLY the same position... well if you like him, go out with him, height dosent matter and shouldnt stand in the way if you really like him

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Nevaeh314 answered Saturday August 20 2005, 10:24 am:
Aww, don't worry about the height. The other day I saw this guy with a girl who was /literally/ a foot and a half taller than him...that's a little extreme, but if you like him a lot and it's not going to drive you crazy, then don't worry about 4 inches. If you're already good friends, you could be passing up a really good opportunity, I'd say go for it! Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh

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maria2653 answered Saturday August 20 2005, 12:42 am:
well you probably wouldnt go well together but if you like him that much go for it!

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Mercy_x_Me answered Friday August 19 2005, 9:16 pm:
its personality that counts! totally, Im sure everyone else already said so, but it's the blatant truth. Trust me you grow to love somebody if you just give them the chance.

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mooch789 answered Friday August 19 2005, 12:58 pm:
For one thing, it doesn't matter on the outside, it matters what's inside. I think you're being too picky. Try it out at first and if you don't like it, then you can dump him. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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CallMeQt97 answered Friday August 19 2005, 11:58 am:
if you like him go for it his height shouldent matter. :)

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rockergurl36 answered Friday August 19 2005, 11:31 am:
height doesn't matter. sure, things will seem a little awkward at first when you try to kiss him, etc. But after a while you won't care. trust me
good luck
hope i helped!

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CrystalRenee06 answered Friday August 19 2005, 9:53 am:
Well, if you really like this guy I think you should go for it. I mean yeah it will look kind of odd to see a girl that's taller than her boyfriend, but then when people see them together, they think "wow, that must mean she doesn't care about looks." And that's a big thing. There are a lot of picky people these days, and all they are after is one thing, and that one thing includes looks as well. So, I think that you should go for it, and see what it would lead to.

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Br4It22Ta05Ny answered Friday August 19 2005, 2:33 am:
Hey Hun! If you like him date him. I dated a short guy once (lol). Its not all that bad but if it bothers you that bad then you should just drop the thought of it but if you really like the guy just give him a chance.
Hope I helped!
~*-Britt-*~

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HeathaAa answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:54 am:
haha i can understand where you're coming from, i don't like shorter guys either. but if you have already been hanging out with this guy, getting to know him, and YOU LIKE HIM, then his height obviously doesnt matter THAT much to you. and i wouldnt let it!! i say go for it :)

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cheerleader4evr answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:41 am:
well no dont dump him just because hes short, just be his freind and if you like him that much then youll except him for the way he is and btw, some people dont stop growing till their in their 20's HOPE I HELPED!

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brunettecutie answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:37 am:
i don think height matters in a relationship. if you really love him and are really into him then you would not judge him on his height. i think you should give him a chance if you really like him. if he has a nice personality then it is all UP-HILL from there.

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brunettecutie**

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BeMyPrInCe22 answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:04 am:
thats slightly shallow about not dating a short guys. You should date if you like him!

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Shortcake22 answered Friday August 19 2005, 12:41 am:
Yeah, It sucks, but thats no reason to diss a guy. You wouldnt want to be overlooked because of something you cant help. Go for it. Who cares what other people think! If you really like the guy, it shouldnt matter.

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BDeezy06 answered Friday August 19 2005, 12:33 am:
Don't base who you like off of height. I guess that's easy for me to say cause I'm 6 foot 1, so most girls are shorter than me. If you like him then be with him. Don't dump him for something stupid like height.

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