|
Family problems, need help..
Hmm, I don't know where to start. I'm 15 years old i have 2 older bro's 18 and 22 and a younger sister 13. Most of my problems is with my oldest brother. He doesn't do anything just sits at home, doesn't have a job and just gets everything from my parents and never works for anyof it. It pee's me off because I have payed for everything i have i'v been working since i was 10. Me and my oldest bro get into fights about everything and even the smallest thing leads into a fist fight.. every little thing i get yelled at by either my parents or bro/sis. I can't take getting yelled at everyday getting into fist fights with my bro everyday or going to bed crying everynight because i want to leave soo bad. Everything that i do my mom asks " what is wrong with you" an dnothing i do can be good enough for my dad. more to the story but no way i could explain it all. please help me what can i do, or try to do for the next couple years im stuck in this house.!?!?!?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
well i think that mostly you should talk to your mom and or dad and tell them how you feel then maybe you should talk to your brother about how you feel also maybe you could try to call a family meeting i no that sounds really funnny nut it may work please let me no how it works if you take my advice
]
Just try to live with it the best you can. If you absolutely cannot live with it, ask your parents if you could move in with a relative or close friend. Violence is not the answer. Good luck! Hope I helped!
]
Maybe they're harsher on you because of your brother. Since he seems like a slacker they want all they can out of you. It's like they expect your eldest brother to be lazy and to pay for everything. Since you've been working since you were 10 I'm sure they're proud of you they just have higher expectations for you because of your brother. I'm not a psychiatrist so I have no idea if that's right, but it sounds like it could be an answer. Otherwise, I don't know of anything you can do. No matter what your brother will probably make you mad. All you can do is just deal. It's his choice to stay at home and one day it's going to get him. Good luck!
<33
]
just deal w/ it try to get rid of your anger against your brother another way like screaming in a pillow or vent about it to your friends. and my dads the same way so i kno how you feel. try cooroperating as much as humanly posinle and then maybe your dad will see that it not you thats the problem, its your brother. HOPE I HELPED!
]
i think you should tell someone, a teacher or consular at school, a friedns mom, a freind, ANYONE. i really think you should tell. Please dont take what i am about to say personaly but, you are a 15 year old girl, you should not have to deal with any of this and none of it is your fault, your brother should get out and get a job, apartment. you shoudl not be doin anything and wroking all the time, and getting into fights. i really think you should tell someone, it will really help. you will feel sooo much better.
<3,
ask me anything,
brunettecutie**
]
dont let it get to you ignore it
Please Rate
]
Just try to ignore your bro that always works with my sis shes alway trying to get under my skin so when he picks on you ignore him until he stops and when you have a prob with your bro dont even tell your moma nd dad they rele dont care that your bro is a couch potatoe and they should soooo hope i help and dont run away
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question: .
| Next Question >>> HELP!!!
|
|