Ok me and my bro are twins... Im 14/f and My family always bugs me because were so close... I have a 16 yr old sister but we dont get along and they are so judgemental about it... They want me to always hang out with her and Me and My Bro Just get along way better and he has the coolest friends... ANYWHO my dad says i cant have a BF and my sister is 2 years older then me and she can... WTH this really sucks because i like my bros friend Cris and stuff but my dad wont let me have a BF... :( ive tried asking but all he does is yell at me and says i cant... HES REALLY strict so how can i get him to let me have a BF... He never argues with my sister about BF's and i always am told no you cant have a BF until your 17 WTH my sister is 16 and has one.... HELP!!
cheerleader4evr answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:30 am: just start hangin out with him and become "friends" and find out if he likes you too, if he does then talk him bout it and c if your dad will understand, if that dnt work then ask ur mom and see if she can explain to your dad y its so important to you that you have a bf. HOPE I HELPED! [ cheerleader4evr's advice column | Ask cheerleader4evr A Question ]
brunettecutie answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:09 am: i think you should explain to your dad how you feel. be like" dad i really dont think it is fair that my 16 year old sister can have a bf and me being ONLY 2 years younger cant have one. i feel like left out and i really want one. i dont think this is very fair." u know?, something like that. good luck sweetie!
85PunkRocPrincess63 answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:00 am: just date the kid nd dont let yer dad find out nd if he sum how does deny it! deny it with all yer might!!make him feel bad if he doesnt trust yo0h be like "i cant believe yo0h wouldnt trust yer own daughter!!" give him a taste of his own medicine!! hope i helped!!=) [ 85PunkRocPrincess63's advice column | Ask 85PunkRocPrincess63 A Question ]
o0xQTpiex0o answered Friday August 19 2005, 12:53 am: it sounds like your dad doesnt want his little girl to grow up he wants you to stay his little girl and thats why he doesnt rele care if your sis kisses a boy but if you did he would get mad try to talk to him say dad we need to talk and say dont yell please but ik you want me to be your little girl but you have to let me grow up sometime or I'm never gonna figure out stuff and learn from my mistakes you have to let me go can i please have a bf and tell him every thing you said in this column how yer sis is only 2 yrs older than you and its fine for her and shes sixteen and you have to wait til you 17 thats not fair at all soo try to talk to him and maybee he'll understand<33 hope i help yah!
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