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bffs
me and my friend used to be the best of friends and then like all of sudden we stopped talking then lil bit after that we passed notes =p and talked alot and then this year we did stuff together but we used to tell eachother everything and now I dont even know who shes crushing on!!!! its very confusing i mean shes soo nice and she rele cares and well i just wanna be bffs again
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Just talk to her about this tell her your feeling confused and that you would like her to understand that you want things how they use to be! she should understand. :)
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its heaps sad when best friends start to drift. having a best friend is something really special and should not be let go for anything.
my bestie started going out with my ex and i hated her so much for that but we went and saw the school chaplain and sorted out everything without it turning into a yelling argument.
so that is one option. but there are heaps of things you can do. just walk up to her and say can we talk or write her a letter or get another friend to talk to her if you dont want to. there are heaps of options out there, just find one that you are most comfortable with.
but i will admit that talking will work things out best. without communication, and trust, a friendship is nothing.
hope it helped.
~*Nadia*~
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Hi. Well then you're going to have to in a way "make the first more". If you want her to tell you persoanl stuff than start telling her things. Say something like "there's this guy in my 2nd period and he is sooo cute" or "I just like that guy so much, but I don't think he likes me" and then she will probably give you advice. if she doesn't than you could always ask her for advice so she feels needed. And than you should ask her "so, how about you, seen any cute guys lately?" To be best friends forever you really HAVE TO BE best friends forever. Call her at spontenious moments... just to say hello. Talk to her about you, your life, your interests, your dislikes, your friends, your crushes, your boyfriend and exboyfriends, and ask her about HER, her life, her interests/dislikes, her crushes/boyfriend/exboyfriend. The more you show you care and trust her, the more she will care for you and trust you.
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i think you should tell her exactly what you told me, but only to HER face. i think you should invite her over your house and talk to her, then take her to your computer and show her what you just wrote. or tell her something like this:" i feel like i am losing you, i feel like i am losing my best friend and i really want you back. i dont know you anymore, you dont tell me anything anymore and this really hurts me." something like that.
good luck
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i know how yo0h feel mi friend nd me were rele rele good friends then she hit middle school bc she is two years older nd she totally hated me until the end of this year we became close...just give her sumtime nd space nd she`ll become yer bff again! hope i helped=)
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