ok here i go basically this boy asked me out at school i really like him but i said yes then i changed my mind and said no kinda. Because i thought about the other guy who likes me and i did not want 2 hurt him. Now the guy that asked me out won't talk 2 me because i hurt him i don't know what 2 do in college tomorrow someone please help. Thank you.
Sallyox answered Monday October 17 2005, 11:48 am: Well your in a mess. Dont worry about hurting someone elses feelings, follow your heart. If you dont love him them dont lead him on. If your at a college level then you should be mature enough to handle this on your own but it seems you do need the help pretty bad.
Also ... the wording of your question is confusing, you should use names so the people trying to help you dont get confused!
AGEHA answered Monday October 17 2005, 5:07 am: You made it into college with that grammar?
You toyed with his emotions, why should he want to talk to you? Just don't say anything to him, because I highly doubt that he's going to want to talk to you again. [ AGEHA's advice column | Ask AGEHA A Question ]
maria2653 answered Sunday October 16 2005, 7:38 pm: the first one that asked you out-you like him. so go out with him! tell the other one that your sorry that your gonna break off the date with him and give him a hug. tell the one that you like tell him that you are so sorry and then may be a few hours later ask him out. [ maria2653's advice column | Ask maria2653 A Question ]
SEXIExxBABIE answered Sunday October 16 2005, 2:09 pm: Just tell the other boy that your sorry and that you aren't ready to be in a realtionship ! Explain to him that you didn't want to hurt the other boys feelings . He should understand. Hope i helped !
Teza answered Sunday October 16 2005, 11:32 am: It's kind of lame that he won't talk to you. You need to talk to him and apologize and tell him you didn't mean to hurt him but you didn't know what you wanted. Also tell him you really like him. I know you don't want to hurt the other guys feelings, but you and the guy that asked you out have feelings yourself. Why waste them? You like him and he likes you. The other guy should understand that. Just take sometime and figure out if you want to go out with him or not but you need to talk to him soon so he isn't mad or anything. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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