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Shuld I be Concerend
I am 13/f and am in the 8th grade. Im not really skinny but medium. I have never been asked out by a guy and I dont really want a bf but I want to be liked. I play sports and am kind uf tomboyish. Also usually I panick if I find out I guy just likes me a little and say something mean. How should I handle a guy that like me w/o bursting on him, is it bad ive never had a bf or been asked out, and should I be more girlish?
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you probably are liked by someone, but the probably dont have the nerve to come out and say it. they're guys, they have high egos! :-p!! anyways, it doesnt matter that you've never had a boyfriend or been asked out. and the fact of being more girlish is up to you. don't change for anyone else, if you want to be more girlish, do it because you want to. if you tend to burst on guys that you find out like you, just be friendly with them, think "i dont like you anyways, so i'm not going to be mean, i'm just going to be friends w/ u"<--but dont say that lol. changing is for your own good and that was my advice, but it's your decision. good luck & hope i helped!
XOXO~*~*~Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO
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no wait for the guy who likes you for you not because you're girly. if you find out a guy likes him then talk to him get to know him like hang out with him not saying you have to date him but talk to him that way he atleast knows u know hes alive. dont say mean things to him jokingly you can but dont do it just to get him off your case.
hope i helped
<3ashley
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dont change for a guys but if you dont were makeup or anything you could try its very sad of guys look mostly on apperences and not on the person so try making your self more attracktive and just talk to guys if you are a tomboy you should have a lot i n common and you are in 8th grade so they wont b afird to talk to you.
hope i help and if u want a fashion tips i can help to
*christina*
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There's probably at least one guy that likes you, you just don't know it. I know what you mean about panicking when someone likes you. Just calm down, remember you have nothing to worry about. It's the boy who likes you. Just try not to think about it if it bothers you. I don't think you should try to change yourself to get boys to like you, cuz they wouldn't be likening you for you if you changed. Hope I helped
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Emily
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I think that every girl is liked by at least one guy... And i think that a guy should like you because of your personallity. I don't think you should turn more girly if you love the things you do now. I think that when i guy likes you and someone tell's you he does just smile and say "he's cool" or something like that... If you don't like him try to avoid saying something mean.. Just be yourself and you'll fine <3
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Amanda
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No, not at all. Guys are just as scared as girls are when it comes to asking people out, maybe moreso. I knew lots of girls (myself included!) that didn't really have lots of boyfriends in school, but it turned out later that there were a lot of secret crushes we didn't know about until we were much older. Don't panic if you find out someone likes you, you don't have to give any kind of answers to him at all - just take a step back and watch and listen, which also gives you a chance to see if they really do like you, and what you might want to do about it. Don't try and be more girlish, guys obviously like you, and I'll bet there's a lot more you don't even know about.
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guys should like you for who you are and you'll find a great guy who will like the same sports as.It doesn't matter if guys haven't ask you out they might just be shy.
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Definitely not, girl! BE YOURSELF!! No one is stoppin' me! Now it's "cool" to wear boyshorts and Converses, but I was wearing that before it was "cool" - seriously. And I'm not stopping either. I don't follow trends. Don't worry though, cause' I've only had one boyfriend and we're still together, and I'm a freshman. I love my boyfriend, and he's the only one I want to spend the rest of my life with. I don't think you should waste your time on boys you couldn't see yourself getting married to, or wouldn't want to be married to. If you say "Would I marry him? Do I know enough about him to make an educated guess to see if I'd want to spend the rest of my life with him?" before you say "Yes" or "No" to a date with a guy, you'll save yourself alot of heartbreak and pain. Yes, there's a VERY good chance your heart will still be broken, and you'll know pain, but it is less of a chance.
I'm tomboyish too. The most pink I own is on a black shirt that says "I hate pink shirts!" lol. I wear boyshorts and boypants, I shop in the guys department more than I do the girls sometimes. I am an equestirian. Though it's been too hot to ride lately, I still "play" with my horses every day. I love to swim (just not on a team... or in front of people...) and I love to run in the rain. I do 200 crunches / 100 push ups daily, with the exception of Sunday. (I only do half of that on Sunday) I'm not really into basketball/baseball/football, but some girls are. Don't change for a guy. There'll be a guy who will absolutely fall HEAD OVER HEELS for you. And you'll be like, "OH MY GOSH! I can't believe there is actually a guy who likes me that much!" You'll be beside yourself, almost giddy. And you'll LOVE it!
Dude, I freak out when a guy likes me too! (almost always) There was this guy who liked me a long time ago (like in the 3rd, 4th and 5th grades) but I didn't see him until recently. He was acting really flirty and it was making me SO ANGRY! I don't like it when a guy acts like that! He was blowing in my ear and on my neck, and playing with my hair - EW! Now, it'd be different if a guy that I liked did that, but I DO NOT like him. At all. He was so irritating. And what's worse is my boyfriend was there part of the time. Seriously, and he would not back off. I wanted to slap the guy across the face; but I have more manners than that. I am almost positive he wouldn't hit me back, but he's alot bigger than me. Why, everyone is bigger than me... I'm barely 5 feet tall, not but 95 pounds. There are 10 year olds that are bigger than me. Sad. But true. There was a guy who liked me and he IM'ed me and said "Hey babe" and it made me so mad! It made me so angry that I blocked him and asked my boyfriend to tell him to back off. The guy hasn't bothered me since. :-) There have been other guys that have liked me and they really freak me out. I'm almost afraid of them because I don't like them, but they like me. One thing you'll find irritating about guys is they'll (in general) pretend you don't exist for the first 13 years of your life (unless you REALLY put out) and then you'll have guys all over you. It's as if they suddenly discovered you. A bit irritating, is it not? Try not to blow them completely off, unless you don't want any guy friends at all.
Don't change for a guy. It's not right. I don't think you should be more girlish unless YOU WANT TO BE THAT WAY. You should worry about not having a boyfriend or being asked out. And you know what? There are probably lots of guys who like you and are afraid to tell you because they think you might reject them. If you don't really want a boyfriend, try to be content with knowing that there are guys who like you and are too afraid to tell you. :-) Don't change, stay the way you are chick!
-FunnyCide
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Well if thats wat you want to be go for it but dont change for a guy they proble like you but are scared to ask out n they take up most of your time anyways wat i got to say is be urself n live life n the boys will come to you
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no you shouldn't. One of my friends is like ythats because shes friends with all they guys. but don't work when you go to highschool theres gunna be a whole new crowd of guys that will be in line to ask you out. good luck!
xOxO!
*lizzie
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