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my friends boyfriend recently got stabbed by his ex-girlfriend. my friend thinks it is all her fault because he got stabbed because of something she told him to tell his ex. and then his ex went locco on him. does is sound like her fault?

will rate...
smartass answers not welcome

PS-wat can i do to comfort her? (link)
so r you saying like killed or like hurt like stabbed in the back well if it who stabbed him did the one fo the ex's i just think you should talk to sum professional help okay cuz you cant help him on your own

::christina::


Dear Christina,
i have a problem. im obsessed with sex. but my bf never wants to do it. but i do. i love sex. i love it. help me out christine. (link)
well christine you have massive problems i think you should get help call 00 the operater and ask for sum conuling places
hope you gte help cuz its that or dump him


tomrorrow is our block party and i really want to raise money for the hurricanes... any good ideas that I can put together quickly??? thanks.. (link)
just around with a can asking for donations or you could charge for sumthing like if you make necklesses or even food sumthing easy cookies preaztles dipped in chocolate

hope i could help tell me how it goes

::Christina::


Dear Christina. I am kind of wondering if I should break up with my boyfriend or not. Every time he comes over, he is always thinking about Sex. Like if we r watching a movie. He will like try to like take my clothes of and kiss my neck. Im not really like that. Should i break up with him?

Signed,
Unsure. (link)
Dear Unsure,
i think you should totally. or u could say if to him if you dont get it that i wanna do it with you then leave because next tim eh e may not ake no for an answer b safe

::christina::


me and my friend like this same guy.the bad thing about it is that they are like best friends.i dont know if i should worry about him and my best friend alone together.she is my best friend in the whole world and she told me that she would never do something like that to me.should i believe her???
I NEED HELP!!!!!! (link)
dear i need help!!,
i think she mightbe lieing to you but at the same time should be telling the truth that doesnt really help but boys make girls do crazy thing so for now dont let this boy get in the way of your friendship so i had friends that were lie that and they were just oppsesed butstill kept being friends so even if they get close or the other way around dont let the other person feel betraied or left out the r more fish in the see haha but ummm i think that might cove it!!
hope i was of some help

::christina::


Does everyone eventually get breasts like their mothers? Like if your mom's breasts are short and pointy, yours will be short and pointy too? (link)
Everything you just said is not true.You will get your own kind depding on your body type.

hope i could b of some help.

::christina::


Dear Christina,
I actually have a question similar to the one below. I promised myself I'd do a modified sport and I can't choose which one!! Softball, Volleyball, Soccer, I DON't KNOW.. Do they have a modified Softball? HELP!! (at transit)

Signed,
Sports Fanatic (link)
dear sports fanatic,
i guess that means i kno you, well do what i told the other personall of them or try which ever one comes first and if you dont like the team move on.and they do have a softball team i had friends on it last year

::Christina::
P.s.im doing volleyball


I'm a seventh grader and I was just wondering whether or not i should try out for the Baseball team or the Soccer team? I'm 4.7, 75 pounds, and i'm excellent as a goalie. But I love baseball just as much. What should I do??

I rate High!!

(link)
well you should do both if you can if not g with one then see how u like it being on the team which ever is frist in seasons then go from there

::christina::


Dear Christina,
I need your help. My entire school envies me, cuz Im just so popular and gorgeous. I can't help it cuz everyone is so Jelous of me! I'm running out of room for friends!! I mean, seriously, I get it that Im soo hot but some people just need to get over them selves.. Is it my fault that people love me! Help!

Signed, Sexy, Popular, Hott, Smart, Funny, Lovable One. (link)
whats your question? all i can say is that you seem like the kind of girl from mean girls that has a big head you kno over confident i bet people do envy you but you dont really have any friends and u can never have to many if you do. they just like you cuz they r... i dont know why they like you. i would like to get into this more if you tell me what the real problem is and tell me more about your self because im being pretty jugementle but that just how you came off to me.so....

hope i could help umm IM me or put sumthing in my inbox you can find my sn in my colum hope i helped

::christina::


Dear Christina,
I have a lot of trouble with people spreading roumers about me in school.
It isnot going good for my rep. everyone thinks im a slut, and s whore..they even think i have had sex...which is TOTALLLY not even close to true...i havent even made out..but im not scared to...ya know wha i mean...

well this is causing me to not have a boyfriend...because every guy in my school hate me cuz of it...its annoying... what do i do???


PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!

signed...
boy crazy (link)
well boy crazy
i have a few friends like that dont b worried about your rep. or the guys all you need to do you put it to thoes who said thoes things about you its still realy in the skool year so you have a while but you just need to talk to their face and be like im not afrid to say things to peoples faces because y should i let the person telling them what i think get all the fun out of seeing their reaction.because they r just a bunch or shalow and unconfident so called people who use others pain for their toy and if you just b like who ever and who ever said this stuff b to sum1 and let them se that it really isnt true your group or army as i like to call it will keep growing till they back down and if they were your friends for get about them is they really lke you or you like them they will come back begging for forgiveness as they always do trust i kno how to handle people like that i have had enough fitghs in my life time. o and if they still dont back down and say that you slpet with sum1 make them tell you with witnesess around you to say who it was and they since its not true they cant say any thing and will deffenitly will back down so just deny deny deny but make sure you have summmm lets call it what they dont have....poor! if you need any more help please put sum thng in my inbox im here for you any time.

::christina::


I just started a brand new school, and met this girl & she asked me to sit with her so I did, she said "Bring 5 dollars or so tomorrow & we can get a Subway." Um, basically my question is, she is asking me to sit with her again right? lol Thanks! (link)
Dear Subway Lover,
I understand what you mean. Yes she is asking you.. DONT U SPEAK GIRL?


i know this sounds childesh, but my mom gave me a puppy for my birthday and theres just one problem. she wants to have him fixed. and i dont want to have him fixed. it will hurt him and think it's his choice to reoproduce or not. but my mom says he'll be less aggresive and then she had the nerve to tell me it's her house and what she says go's. i dont want to have him fixed but my mom's being a total bitch. how do i convince my mom that it's unfair to fix a dog, and he's mine not hers. (link)
well well is it a him or her.any ways i think ur mom is right sorry and think about it if you rnt gonna bored it then what the point they will b in heat every month which gets really annoying.and it doesnt hurt them that much.


christina hope i could help


Hey i am 18/f and i have been goin out with this guy for about 2 years and i think we r gettin serious. But a couple days ago he started talking about having sex. He seemed really sure about it, but i dont know if im to young? Should i start having sex with him or is it to early??
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well personally i say wait untill its the right time you want your frist time to be special sumthing that you can remember forever like your first kiss no one will ever forget their first kiss. so i think unless you really want to wait untill you r ready and its safe to just say no and if he doesnt get that move on as hard as it might b.

hope i helped

christina


I have a friend and she used to be my best friend. I completely trusted her with anything. But then she decided to start spreading rumors about me all over the place, and what she said really hurt. Then a yesterday she told me she was sorry. I dont know what to do, should i forgive her?? (link)
well unless she a really good reason to say that stuff and i mean really good then no just say sry i dont want to hang around with people who would do things like that. and if she was really your friend she wouldnt have said anything behind you back.am i right or what you kno im right.


so hope i could help you if you need anything else but sumthing in my inbox

::christina::


somebody help!

i really like my b/f. i think i love him. i know ppl say oh you dont know what love is when your 13. but i cant talk or breathe around him. and when he touches me i get chills up my spine. heres the problem. ppl r always tellin me hes cheatin and i dont know who to believe my b/f or my best frends?i mean i want to believe him but i think it mite be true because whenever we go to this dance place these same girls are all over him and he doesnt do anything he like ignores me.....i dont know what to do. i have tryed to break up with him but wen i try i cant i think im in love...plzz help

from confused!!!!! (link)
well the first time you asked him if he was cheating did he get mad and then if you ask him again and again and he doesnt look you stright in the eyes to make sure you kno and have a culm voice he is soo cheating so get back to meand we will talk more and his behavior to see the signs so i can b clear

hope i helped

christina


I am 13/f and am in the 8th grade. Im not really skinny but medium. I have never been asked out by a guy and I dont really want a bf but I want to be liked. I play sports and am kind uf tomboyish. Also usually I panick if I find out I guy just likes me a little and say something mean. How should I handle a guy that like me w/o bursting on him, is it bad ive never had a bf or been asked out, and should I be more girlish? (link)
dont change for a guys but if you dont were makeup or anything you could try its very sad of guys look mostly on apperences and not on the person so try making your self more attracktive and just talk to guys if you are a tomboy you should have a lot i n common and you are in 8th grade so they wont b afird to talk to you.


hope i help and if u want a fashion tips i can help to

*christina*


okay so i have this livejournal but it's really boring and i don't know how to use any overrides to make it look pretty or anything. can someone please explain what i need to do to put a background picture on it and make my entries [not the background pic] only move when you scroll?
i'd really appreciate it
i rate. (link)
for get about live journals get a myspace go to www.myspace.com its soo much fun


today this one girl asked me out and i dident want to say no cuz i dont like to hurt ppl's feelings so i said yes but the thing is i like sumone else what should i do about this situation the second thing is im a guy and i hate goin to this kinda advice thing so no offence this was my last resort so i need good advice.
signed,
??? what to do (link)
awww thats so sweet that you dont like hurting there feelngs but you have to b honest and just say can just b friends but dont tell its because you like another girl just say its because you dont lke her in that way it might b hard at first but they will understand

Good luck if you have any more Qs dont b shy put them iin my inbox

christina


Hey,

my grandma (I call her nina) is SO rude. I don't know what to tell her. She gets drunk and I have tried talking to her and she slapped me across the face. She GAVE me a cell phone before Christmas, then took it back! She makes me SO mad. I have NO ideas on what I can do to stop her. My WHOLE family hates her, even her own son (my dad) She's on my dad's side of the family and she is SO rude. She calls me a biotch, flips me off, and tells me I'm ugly. I can't stand her. What can I do? PLEASE HELP. I'm at her house right now and I am emailing from her computer. I have talked to my mom and dad and they said they understand but they don't SAY or DO anything!!! It makes me SO mad when she does these things and I wante her to be OUT OF MY LIFE!!! Either that, or I want to be able to talk to her without her hitting me or something. I'm sorry this is so long but I have to tell you guys EVERYTHING she's ever done. She even hits my pap, (her husband) and he's SO nice! I love my papa! She's not even my real grandma, she's my step-grandma. I couldn't say Nana when I was younger so I called her nina and it stuck. I can't stand this old woman! HELP!!!!
I'm 13/f and my sister feels the same way but unfortunately, she's only 10 and is not old enough to write questions or have an account on advicenators so I ask all her questions FOR her! She needs help too, we BOTH do!

No saracasm, please. You're not being helpful and I really need help. Me and my sister are DYING with her around. (link)
unlike what sum1 said dont agree that you shouldnt talk to your nina you should talk to her in a strong voice and have as many ppl as possible back you up
but dont stand to close if u kno what i mean
good luck to you

put sumthing in my box if you need any more help sounds lke you have one middle life crisec on your hands that is more then over do

~christina

P.S. be carefull


I completely accept that no one else can tell someone whether they are in love or not but does anyone else find it a little silly when people say they are completely in love with someone they have never dated or kissed, or dated for a week or so?

I almost find it offensive. I don't like that word being taken so lightly and thrown around. Does this annoy anyone else here, or am I being too judgmental? (link)
it soo annoys me to. because the say i think of it is how came for adults it so hard for them to say to sum1 i love you because the really kno the mean probiblly but for us kids just go around saying i love u i love to every girl or guy they get not even after the first day so i tell my bfs dont say that to meun less u really really do mean it( i tell them that right away)

christina




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