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UGH... my grandma
Hey,
my grandma (I call her nina) is SO rude. I don't know what to tell her. She gets drunk and I have tried talking to her and she slapped me across the face. She GAVE me a cell phone before Christmas, then took it back! She makes me SO mad. I have NO ideas on what I can do to stop her. My WHOLE family hates her, even her own son (my dad) She's on my dad's side of the family and she is SO rude. She calls me a biotch, flips me off, and tells me I'm ugly. I can't stand her. What can I do? PLEASE HELP. I'm at her house right now and I am emailing from her computer. I have talked to my mom and dad and they said they understand but they don't SAY or DO anything!!! It makes me SO mad when she does these things and I wante her to be OUT OF MY LIFE!!! Either that, or I want to be able to talk to her without her hitting me or something. I'm sorry this is so long but I have to tell you guys EVERYTHING she's ever done. She even hits my pap, (her husband) and he's SO nice! I love my papa! She's not even my real grandma, she's my step-grandma. I couldn't say Nana when I was younger so I called her nina and it stuck. I can't stand this old woman! HELP!!!!
I'm 13/f and my sister feels the same way but unfortunately, she's only 10 and is not old enough to write questions or have an account on advicenators so I ask all her questions FOR her! She needs help too, we BOTH do!
No saracasm, please. You're not being helpful and I really need help. Me and my sister are DYING with her around.
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unlike what sum1 said dont agree that you shouldnt talk to your nina you should talk to her in a strong voice and have as many ppl as possible back you up
but dont stand to close if u kno what i mean
good luck to you
put sumthing in my box if you need any more help sounds lke you have one middle life crisec on your hands that is more then over do
~christina
P.S. be carefull
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well one thing you can do is let it go through one ear and out the other tell her mean stuff to. ask your mom if you can cuss at her when she says somthing like that. say somthing mean to her and she cant get mad because it is revenge if she slaps you again call the cops and say my own grandma is slapping me a cross the face and is being really rude if she call you a biotch again say the same thing back if your mom gives you the permission suriously a grandma shouldn't do that to there own grand children and possibly if she gets caught in the act by a cop she will be put in jail for doing that to a teen age who didn't do any thing hope my advice helps and if you have any questions you can email me at
brittany_angel12345@yahoo.com
or you can write me in my inbox hope my advice helps and I am always there for you if you need it I promise you i will help
p.s. when you go over there dont even talk to her talk to your papa
luv, Brittany : )
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well you can contact the cops that is very abuseive for a grandma to do to there own grand children I am really sorry and she shouldn't be doing this to yall you need to talk to her and see what she says
hope I helped love
Brittany
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What you should do is maybe write a letter.... put on the paper what you are feeling about her and all the wrong things she has done..... make sure to mention all of the above.... Then try to find a place to leave it that you know she will be at..... after you leave it in that place get out of the house.... let her cool off after she reads all that.... just go to a fun place all you family can injoy....
well hope I helped <3 tiff
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Well if you've tried reasoning with her, report her to the police for physical abuse( slapping). She'll be sorry she ever was mean to you guys. Just know she has ABSOLUTELY NO right to hit anyone. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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Wow she sounds like a real witch. I think you should tell them that you don't want to be around her, she sounds dangerous. Seriously, if this woman gets drunk and hits you, then she's no person to be around. I hope you told your parents that she did that. I'm oblivious as to why your parents don't do anything, I mean she hit you, and they apparently hate her too. I'm sorry you have to go through this, but I don't understand why your parents make you go to her house. You should really try to get through to them, ya know?
I hope I helped. I'm sorry again.
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do you live with her? if you dont just refuse to go over there to visit. if you have to go to visit..keep conversation very very limited. dont go near her dont talk to her..dont look at her. kind of go on strike. hang out with your grandpa.
this is one of those "adult things" your mom and dad have control over this more than you do..they have the power to make you go to your grandmas..or they can understand how your feeling and never make you go there again. if you HAVE to visit, at least you have the power of not talking to her at all. what a nasty old woman, im sorry you have to go through that crap!
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