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I'm 15/f if that's gonna help. Today i met this really nice gurl at my school. She's really sweet, pretty, and alot more to me. I think i'm starting to like her but i'm not sure because i've only known her for like a day!!! And i dont know if she's bi or w/e. I'd kinda like to know before i start seeing her as anything more than a friend. Are there any ways to notice if she's interested??? I dont want to exactly ask her because she's new and all. But i still want to know. Any tips other than just ask her??? I'd appreciate ANYTHING!!! I'll rate ya high!!!
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ask her if she wants to be friends,
then after a little while
tell her you think you might be gay
if shes shocked and grossed out
she's probly straight
if shes understanding and tells you she is too
than shes definitly gay or bi
then if you ever kiss her,
if it turns out more than just a small kiss
(ex: making out, or lesbo sex)
you're both gay
or bisexual.
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OK well, from the looks of your question your are bi/lesbian? ha thats awsome! well anywho... I wouldent ask right away just to save you both from humilation. I would get to know her better, she could just be nice cause she is new and wants to make friends, or that was the way she was raised you know? I would just take it really slow, just be asking her stufflike, oh do you think that guy is really cute? Or when school starts or if it hasent already ask her who she likes in the school, just be like, do you think so and so is hot, and, maybe you could get something out of her than? I dont know. Some girls might kind of freak out by your sexuality, so just take it slow out? and sooner or later be like.... i gotta tell you something... and do your thang, if all else fails.
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hang out with her and get on the topic of guys ..
how? maybe say something like 'I think it would be awesome going shoppng with a gay man'
then you can mention..i was on advicenators and i saw this question about girls wanting to experimenting." see her reaction..she will probably tell you her opinion right there
"eeew" or "yeah i heard its normal" or somethin to that effect.
little things like..does she give you hugs, look at girls, make jokes like "your sexy i want you" type of thing. then if you have a bisexual friend or friend who wont tell..have all 3 of you play truth or dare and on her truth ask "would you ever experiment with a girl if you two were close"
if she pics dare..dare her to kiss you
i hope i helped!
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Well, you have to be her friend first. Cause, you know, you can't just like walk by and ask her 'Are you interested with me?' right? So, I think you should be her friend first. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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