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confused!
somebody help!
i really like my b/f. i think i love him. i know ppl say oh you dont know what love is when your 13. but i cant talk or breathe around him. and when he touches me i get chills up my spine. heres the problem. ppl r always tellin me hes cheatin and i dont know who to believe my b/f or my best frends?i mean i want to believe him but i think it mite be true because whenever we go to this dance place these same girls are all over him and he doesnt do anything he like ignores me.....i dont know what to do. i have tryed to break up with him but wen i try i cant i think im in love...plzz help
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well the first time you asked him if he was cheating did he get mad and then if you ask him again and again and he doesnt look you stright in the eyes to make sure you kno and have a culm voice he is soo cheating so get back to meand we will talk more and his behavior to see the signs so i can b clear
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christina
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He sounds like an ass. By ignoring you when those other girls fawn over him, he's showing signs that he's not that serious about the relationship. Just by what you've said, I wouldn't doubt that he has, or at least seriously thought about cheating on you. Try to find out more from your friends and keep an open mind with them. Even though you love him, you have to realize that being with a guy like this is not the best thing for you. I'm not telling you that you should dump him, but you should consider it.
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You should always trust your best friends over a guy. Judging by his behavior at the dances, he doesn't seem like that great of a guy, cheating or not. I personally know it's hard getting over someone when you think you love them... but in cases like this, you have to think with your head, not your heart. Ask your friends why they think he cheats. They might be able to help you catch him in the act, or get the truth out of him. I would encourage dumping him whether or not he's cheating, because you're obviously not happy with all aspects of the realtionship.
Hope I helped!
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welll i would say talk to your friends about why they say he is cheating on you.. and then talk to your bf about it.. ask him why he ignores you when you go to that dance place.. and that it hurts you to see him with other girls like that.. and if he continues to totally & completly ignore you & hang around with other girls that arent you.. well then i guess talk to him again.. but if you actually catch him cheating on you.. well i guess you shold prlly break up with him.. ik you wont want to.. but no one ever deserves to be put second.. and never deserves to be cheated on and treated like garbage.. so i hope everything works out *RATE ME PLEASE* -- courtney --
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I already had the answer half way of reading this, I had fallin in love with a guy for a couple of month i wasn't even going out with him. that is love, you could be 5 and in love. ask your bf and tell him people say he has been cheating then ask him who the girls are that are all over him. u r in love but if he is cheating u need to realise he isn't the right person for you. hope i helped.
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you should ALWAYS believe your best friends above your boyfriend in my opinion, and i'm sure the guy would say the same thing. I really think you need to dump him, cus if u find out from someone later it's gonna hurt more... believe me i've been cheated on.
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I understand you completely its hard to pick which 1 to believe but youve gotta relize that your best friends no whats best for you and you n him most likely wont last forever.. (its possible tho) but if he ignores you then what kinda boyfriend is that?? so i say go with your friends cas there just lookin out for you
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First of all NEVER EVER EVER EVER go by the word of your boyfriend over your best friends. NEVER! You lose friends that way... Happened to me. But if he's going to be treating you like that... ignoring you and running off to hang out with some other bitches, then the boy's an asshole and doesn't deserve a girl that's gonna love him like you! Have you tried to talk to him about it? Ask him if the rumors are true that he's been messing around? Have you told him that it bothers you when he goes off and dances with other girls and leaves you there looking like a fool? If you haven't, now would be the time. You don't deserve to be treated like that! You really need to open up your mouth and let him have it!! But always always believe your friends over your boyfriend... UNLESS you have a gut feeling that you're friends are lying. Even your best friends will do that. That happened to me too! Much luck and much love =)
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here is what you do, dump his ass! and if he calls you up and wants you back, than he wasent! and if he dont call ya get your self someone worth while hun
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