my friends boyfriend recently got stabbed by his ex-girlfriend. my friend thinks it is all her fault because he got stabbed because of something she told him to tell his ex. and then his ex went locco on him. does is sound like her fault?
TLM answered Thursday October 13 2005, 7:38 pm: um yeah sorry. it kinda does. is her boyfriend okay from the crazy b****?!? [ TLM's advice column | Ask TLM A Question ]
XoNeLLiE143oX answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 8:56 pm: omg im so sorry...well, when a person is grieving, they often dont want to talk about it. It's not her fault, she just made a mistake. Of course, this mistake caused her bf to get stabbed, but thats her ex's fault. He needs to learn how to control himself. Now, if your friend still has some feelings for her ex, then dont say what im about to say to her, but if she doesnt then tell her that hes just an animal, and a loser. if he cant handle his ex going out with someone else then thats his problem, but violence is DEFINITLY not the answer.
hope i helped!
<33 Danielle
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amach24 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 7:14 pm: First of all, people are responsible for their own actions. It's not your friends fault it's the person that chose to take such drastic action and stab someone.
You need to tell your friend that she is NOT at fault and even if what she said to the ex set her off and fueled this stabbing,it still doesn't make it her fault.
I'm sure she feels horrible and hopefully has learned to steer clear of ex's, but again I hope she can realize that she didn't stab him, someone who is obviously nutty did. [ amach24's advice column | Ask amach24 A Question ]
ankeagle14 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 6:57 pm: its not her fault, she didnt make him tell his ex.invite ur friend over and do somthing she likes to do. try to get her mind off things. hope i helped
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XmeXohXmie answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 6:45 pm: EEK! Scary...OK. It was nother fault because she didnt MAKE him tell. He did it on his own accord. Try to do things with her that made her happy before. Nails, mall, movies, try to distract her and she will forget it.
Staci_3494 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 6:32 pm: Awwww... Tell her its going to be alright. Its not her falt at all. The ex, its her falt. To comfort her try to keep her mind of it like talk aboiut random stuff but be cafeful because some might remind her of it! Good luck and it will be alright.
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