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okay
my b/f says he cares
but he doesnt act like it AT ALL.
i dont know wuts going on but like, ill ask him if he "wants" anything and he says w/e u want, and i have been asking and asking him and he never tells me and he has even gotten really mad about it, i dont know what to do, please help..i mean, we do all this shit in teh movies not sex, but other stuff and it seems like he always has other thigns going on...please help me find out what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Lay off the poor guy. No wonder he isn't egar to spend time with you if you are always bothering him about what he wants.
Lead by example, tell him what you want and what you like. Eventually he will start to share too. But don't put so much presure on him or yourself, relationships take time to develope and grow, if you try and force it you'll only ruin it.
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Hmm... sounds like you might have a problem here. The only way to REALLY solve a problem like this is communication. Talk to your boyfriend. I know you said that he isn't really giving you any feedback but you have to do your best. Tell him how important he is to you & make him feel needed. Then tell him that this communication gap is really interfeering with your relationship. You may have to get tough & even say that you won't stay in the relationship if this goes on. I know you probably don't want to end things with him but it's not fair that he's doing this. Good luck!
♥ Montana
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if he doesnt tell you maybe its because he is uncomfatble or shy. tell him to write down what he wants that may help.You need to tell him how you feel and that you want him to be happy with you and that your trying to make this relationship stronger by doing that so he needs to let you know some how he wants to be pleased, Hope I helped.Kate
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