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Okay, well I am like BEST FRIENDS with this girl. She recently broke up with her boyfriend (about a month ago.) Now I think he likes me, and I like him too. But my best friend is telling me she won't be friends with me if I go out with him. I don't understand why she cares though, because she doesn't like him anymore and recently told me she was lezbo. I don't want to throw away our great friendship, but I really like this guy, and I don't like lezbians! What should I do?

if he asks you out go out with him because if she doesn't respect that you like him and he likes you then she's not a true friend. she should be happy for you no matter what if she calls herself a true friend.

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I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?

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i think that you should give her another chance b.c. life is full of chances but i also think that you shouldn't tell her anything for a long time for her to gain her trust back



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how do i leave u a rating ?! ahh stupid quetsion but i cant figure it out !

you go to the question that you left me and then click on leave feedback or something like that .. lol

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hey. i have this friend that ive been friends with for a while and shes been blowing me off to hang out with her other friend. its getting me mad but i dont wanna throw away our longggg friendship thats been good till now. tell me what do i do?

i think that you should keep your good friendship with her but start to hang out with some other people.


~Alyssa

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alot of girls in my school are really pretty.. they could get any guy to go out with them ! i myself think im pretty..but none fo the guys see it that way. the pretty girls dont need to wear a lot of makeup mayeb some lipgloss or something like that .. they are just natrually so pretty. i want to be one of the pretty girls ! and i want at least one of the guys they can get. x3

i say give it time and maybe change your stlye a little and then if you want them to notice you start hanging around the pretty girls and make friends with them.


~Alyssa


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It all started in 6th garde when i went out with this great guy. We went out for about 5 monthes..then we brokeup becuase there was really no more love in it. After we broke up her started up this new name for me . I would rather not say what it is ! Now even though everyone hates HIM, some of the guys still call me this name. Its not like slut or anything like that..its just a stupid name that totally makes no sense to me. I want the guys to stop calling me this cause it really bothers me. I tried to talk to them..but their a bunch of idiots sometimes..please help me get them to stop !

just pretend that it doesn't bother you and they'll stop. they're just being immature so don't take it to heart.

~ Alyssa


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A lot of my friends wear abercrombie. I never ever have worse it before..but would like to start wearing it. I have the money and everything, but dont know how people would react to my chnage in style. Im not a goth or anything, i just were Pacific Sun, Roxy things liek that. If i wore abercrombie i think i would feel more confident in myself. the problem is what people will think..PLEASE HELP !

first i think that you should find out who you really want to be. i'm totally confident and i wear pac sun. but before you change your style .. figure out who you want to be and how it wil change you.

(( personally, guys love pac sun !! ))

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~ Alyssa

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well .. i've known this guy for awhile now and when we first met you could say it was "love" at first sight. The week after we met we went out..but nothing really went on because i was only like 10 or 11 and he was one of my first boyfriends. When we got into middle school..things totally changed between us. We used to be soo close and had a great time with eachtoher even just as best friends, but when he started meeting other girls, we grew farther an farther apart. This year [7th grade] we got close again, but hes had this one girlfriend the whole year. They fought ALOT and werent even happy anymore towards the end of the year. They FiNALLY brokeup..and i was kinda happy about it, but i felt bad for my friend (his x) becuase we got close too. I was kind of caught in the middle for awhile .. but now im friends with both of them. I dont wanna say im in love with this guy again..just the feelings are still there. please tell me what you think i should do ! - anonomous

i think that you should tell him that you still like him in private.. like when you two hangout or something. it would be a good way to break the ice.

and don't feel bad for his x because you should put your needs ahead of hers b.c. in 7th grade girls are backstabbers and she can turn around any second and hate you ! ( experianced advice )
stay close to her but keep your guard up !!

~ Alyssa

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hey alyssa... i have been attracted to this guy nick for a while and we went to the movies and he said that he liked me.. and we made out and w.e but then i get home and talk to him and he starts calling me a slut and everything and he dosent like me.. so then i start talkin to his friend. sean . and he likes me and i guess i like him ya kno but i still have some feelings for nick that i cant get rid off?

i understand completely. i've been in pretty much the same situation. i think that you should keep your feelings to yourself about nick so he doesn't think your desperate or anything b.c. guys thing that way b.c. they're stupid, and i think that you should just keep sean in mind and keep on talking to him and keep your relationship with sean tight b.c. sean seems nicer and more gentleman`ish than nick did.

i hope you take this into consideration

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~ Alyssa

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Hay alyssa, i really like this kid and he sayys he likes me but he can never hang out. He says it because his mom wont let him but sometimes i dont believe him. So what do u think i should do .. continue to like him and believe him or give up and move on?

sincerely, nicole

well best friend, you're the coolest girl ever and you're a model so i think that you can get better looking guys. and personally of what i know i think he likes you too. so until you hang out with him, i think that you should start talking to the guys that you like or make some new guy friends out of your new career !! THIS GIRLS GUNNA BE A MODEL PEOPLE !! GO COCO !!
i hope you found this helpful babe.

xoxo ~ Aly

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hey my name is rebecca i told you abiout my boy friend that i had for 2 months well yeah anyway.. you gave me really goo advice buht you didnt answer1 of the questions whats do i tell him when he asks me why do you still love me if were friends? what do you think i should say ?

yeah sorry i realized that after i sent it. lol.
um i think that you should say i'm not. you should keep the secret to yourself about you loving him still. that's what i do and it works but just i wouldn't tell anybody about it. it would save a lot of unwanted drama. lol.

~ Alyssa

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I've been likeing these 2 girls. I went on a date with one and we hit it off and even made out in the movies. The second girl we went out dancing and we had fun to. Both girls live far away but one lives a little closer. I just dont know what to do they both wana go out with me and i wana go out with them but i just can't deside which girl to pick. I also feel bad for each girl becasue they dont know about eachother i think i need to make a choice soon before ilose them both. HELP!!!

b4 i say anything.. do they know eachother ? i/m me and tell me at AMAZiNG x LOV3 .. thanks ;)

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i think im in love with my best friend Sarah.. i havent told her that im a lezbian cause i dont kow how she would take it.. what shold i do ??

well, i'm not a lezbian but i think that if she's not a lezbian and she's your best friend i'd say keep the friendship and search for other lezbians out there.
`i hope that you take this into consideration`

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~Alyssa

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Me and this guy were going out for 2 months.. his retarted best friend like controlled his life .. his friend didnt like me for some reason and told my boy friend to dump me.. my boy friend listened to him n dumped me buht i still like him soo much and he knows and he always asks me why do you still love me when were friends ad i dont no whats to say.. what do you think i should say ? ~ AnNonomus~

i think that you should see if you really like him by keeping your distance from him and his best friend to see if you miss him. and if you don't than they're plenty more guys out there. and he'll realize that he missed out on a great relationship if he broke up with you b.c. of his best friend. and if you do end up missing him then just try to start a friendship with him again and start things over so it can make things better bewtween the both of you.
(p.s.) this works !! i know b/c the same thing happened to me !!

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~Alyssa

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I have had this really good firend for like seven years and we are like sisters. Ive noticed that she never really took a liking to guys and always wondered if she was lesbian or something. She told me just a few weeks ago that she was and that she was sexually attracted to me. I was really confused and disguisted. I dont wanna throw away a seven year friendship...but i dont want my best friend hitting on me.

hey,
i think that you should tell her that you're interested in guys not girls. but since you don't want to throw the relationship away i'd just tell her that you still wanna stay best friends.

~Alyssa

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Me and my friend Jay have been very close friends since the 8th grade. We are Juniors in highschool now, and in the beginning of last year he became very attractive. I developed a crush on him, and recently it's become really intense. We've expressed some intress in one another, he used to like me at one point this year, and vice versa, but neither of us told eachother. (i found out from my friend). I've been itching to tell him how i feel, because we hang out almost every day and i just feel it necessary. But last week he told me, unexpectedly that he likes my best friend, lindsay. They never hang out, and if they ever do, it's with me. She already has two guys that she's with and it would bad of me to say this, but she really is in some way a slut. I don't know what to do. I've built up all of these emotions for Jay, and now i really cannot tell him about it. When he told me about his crush on Linds, i acted a bit weirded out and he caught on a bit. Since then we havent hung out or talked. What should i do?

hey,

i think that you should tell your best friend your feelings for Jay. her reaction to it will tell you if she's a true friend or not and she can also help you out with it. but with the whole her being a kinda slut issue i don't exactly think you should bring up those feelings to her. lol. (p.s.) if you become closer to Jay and act like yourself around him he'll probaly like you too and when you feel the time is right, you can tell him how you feel about him.

i hope you take this into consideration.

~Alyssa

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