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I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?
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Well i would just talk to her .. i would be upset tho becoz she told sumone but you need to have a serious talk with her becoz if she is your best friend then she should be willing not to tell anyone.. well i dont kno what else to tell you babeZ if you want to talk to me then i.m me on xdingyxbabex !!
kaitlyn jO*
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You absolutely can't trust her anymore.. If you want your secret save, just tell God and maybe your sibling <if you have any>..
-ViTaChaN-
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no, what u should do is cuss her out.
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This is a toughy. Sit her down and talk to her... ask her why she told other people the secret you told her. Mention to her that you told her because she's your best friend and she trusted you, and even let her know that she did break the trust line. I wouldn't recommend ending the friendship, but... I wouldn't trust her with those big of secrets. Obviously since she told someone, she can't keep a secret... and isn't your best friend.
Good Luck =)
-Morgan
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If she is your best friend, then you should trust her enough to tell her secrets and trust her not to tell anyone. If she does tell people, then shes not really your best friend. Always make sure you totally trust someone before you tell them something personal.
I hope this helped XD
X_Amanda_X
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hmmm.. trust is a big thing in friendship. I`d say, talk to her.. ask her why she told other people when you told her not to.. tell her how you feel about her and your friendship now that she betrayed you like that. She made one mistake, but i don`t think that you should end your friendship over it. but that is totally your dicision. Give it time, regain your trust and if she messes up again, then i would rethink your friendship with her.
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you have the right not to trust her. Or atleast not as much as you would like. Maybe give her some time and see if the trust grows back. It might take a while though.
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i think that you should give her another chance b.c. life is full of chances but i also think that you shouldn't tell her anything for a long time for her to gain her trust back
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personally i don't think you should trust her because you told her a secret and you didn't want anybody elese to know but her and she told someone i mean how do you know the person she told is trustworthy and you don't know if the person she told will tell your secret to everyone or not tell it to everyone i mean her being your best friend you should be able to tell her everything without her telling anybody elese she should be trustworthy i mean if she told you a secret and she told you she didn't want anybody knowing about that secret you wouldn't tell anybody you you would be a bestfriend you should be able to trust her with your secrets but now you can't trust her anymore tell her she is going to have to do something in order for you to trust her again.
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it depends on what the secret waz if it waz important and she told then no but if it was not important than u need to trust her because friends dont grow on trees
Hope i helped Chuck Borsellino
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secrets dont make friends
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it's a song
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i don't think you should trust her again, or tell her she'll have to earn her trust back because do you really want to feel unprotected?
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Give her another chance, if that doesn't work out, be careful what you tell her! =-O
Luv KenniSki10
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♥It depends. Think back, do you remember telling her especially not to tell anyone? If you didn't actually tell her not to, she still can remain your best friend. Although, if you did warn her and she still told someone, I don't think she should be your best friend. Of course let her remain your friend, but get a new "best" friend. BUT...if the secret you told her was something she could be concerned about and she told her family or your family, I think you should let her off the hook because she was just concerned.
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You shouldn't trust her but you could still be her friend.
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Did you tell her that you didn't want anyone else but her to know when you told her?If you did tell her and she still went and told someone else anyways,I don't think that you should trust her with those types of things anymore.
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i think you should confront your friend about it.
tell her that it was really upset, saying that you might not be able to trust again can cause a lot of problems...i think maybe you should be really careful now telling her some things..keep a diary with a lock, they keep great secrets. =)
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wow, tough situation. That has happened to me before too. Just confront your friend about it and tell her that you didnt want anyone to know and the fact that she told someone upset you. You can probably still trust her, just be careful of what you tell her. And if you talk to her, she will probably understand and respect your trust more. Good luck, hope I helped.
~*~*~Lauren~*~*~
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dont tell her your secrets again. actually you should say something that you dont mind the whole world knowing but tell her to keep it secret and see who finds out. that should get her. <3
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just dont tell any1 ur secrets. keep them to urself. i wouldnt trust her but thats my opinion
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You should confront your friend and tell her how you feel. if she is sencere about letting you down, you can trust her again. maybe you should give her another chance. if she blows it again, i guess she's not a friend to tell your secrets to.
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well if you'd like to inbox me what the secret is i could probably help you out more because it all depends on the secret...other than this one incident is she a good friend? or has stuff like this happened in the past..if it was a one time slip up tell her your disappointed in her but she will earn your trust back..if it was a huuge secret it would take longer for me to trust her again..hopefully she learned her lesson though..
hope i helped
-melissa-
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well i would say it all depends on the seriousness of the secret. if it was something that could've hurt you, then i think it was ok for your friend to tell someone. also, it it was something silly like your crush or whatever, i think you should forgive her too.
however, if it was a true secret about yourself or your family, then i would question how good of a friendship ya'll have.
hope this helps- :)
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Meh; it's Really YOUR decision, Kiddo. PeRsonally, I'd be enRaged if someone Ran theiR fat mouth when I asked them not to. Did she know it was a 'secRet'?? Maybe you could talk to heR about it, oR is that completely out of the question?? Honestly, if that happened to ME, I wouldn't botheR bRinging it up to heR - what's done is done.. damage has alReady been completed. I just wouldn't lay my secRets in heR hands fRom then on. Lesson leaRned, ya know? I guess now you know betteR foR next time. Hope.. this.. helps..?? :)
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