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i am me. i am self-concious. i'm shy when i first meet people. i adore the pool. i like toe rings. i like fleece socks. i love braxton. i will never stop watching marykate&ashley movies. i love hot pink. i laugh at everything. i love blowdrying my hair. hollister is sex. so is ae. i get jealous. i cry for no reason sometimes. i say "shut up" in a funny way. i like running at night. i love my girls&&boys. penguins rock my socks. i like being looked up to. i love being right. im a good speller. ive made too many mistakes. i worry, a lot. i worry about nothing. i love strawberry slushes. i laugh when people i dont know dont like me. i could live off mac&cheese and ramen noodles. i dont like eating my vegetables. i hate when people totally steal my face [[stare]]. im a huge fan of the beach. i dont like salt water. i love being with friends. i love telling my deepest secrets to my best friends. i hate the way i focus on my flaws. my eyes are brown. i think its funny when guys i dont like have a crush on me. girls these days are sluts&bitches. but not all of them. i eat when im bored. which is a lot. tanning beds are awesome. i love flip flops. i think cigarettes are gross. i've been to canada. tattoos dont bother me, as long as they arent ugly. i love buying stuff for my friends&boyfriend. i dont sing in the shower. i hate when lipgloss gets sticky. i love blink182&falloutboy. i have like 10 best friends. mostly guys tho. =] i hate jealous people. i love getting massages. i love sleeping. snakes amaze me. i love roller coasters. i love being in love. i hate boys. i love boys. im a gemini. gasoline smells good. i am a geek. i love being told im beautiful. death scares me. i love those long, meaningful conversations with people you just met. i think it would be cool to be jewish. i get so irritated when i cant get comfortable in bed. i hate taking tests. i hate bugs. you dont have to do drugs to be dope. i love my hair. makeup is fun. i have small boobs. i think. i love orange soda. i have junk in my trunk. i love american eagle jeans. im online a lot. i hate star wars. i like tight pants. i like reading sometimes. i hate running. i like cotton candy. im smart. i am karissa. =]

advice

Hi,
Okay so i have this friend well we're not really friends anymore but, I guess I would like to be. We used to be really close but things just did not turn out right and I am not sure what to do to communicate with her. The only reason I am concered with this is because we used to be good friends and hang out all the time and then we just kind of didn't anymore. I am not sure why but then soon after this we started fighting alot and I have not talked to her in a very long time. What do you think i should do?

wOw.. i kinda know what your goin through your goin through right now cuz i am goin through the same thing.. it`s hard.. because after they are gone and out of your life, you realize how much you miss them and actually cared for them. Tell her how you feel and how this whole thing is bothering you. If you really care about her, and miss her like you say you do.. it will be really easy to regain your friendship.. like, i donno how to explain it but you just know what to do when the time comes. Try writing her a letter, or an e-mail. It will make things so much easier, or sit her down and talk with her in person. The right words will be said when the right time comes. Don`t worry about it, you and your 'friend' will be fine and things will hopefully work out for you. good luck and i hope i helped. =]

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i've had a boyfriend for almost 5 months now and he has been gone for the past 2 weeks and we havent been able to talk that much..like hardly at all.. and he is going to be home for a half a day today but then tomorrow he is leaving again for camp..and i miss him a LOT.. is there anything to make me feel any better?!?

go and see him before he leaves again. what are you waitin` for girl =]
xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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Hi,
I have a problem with this guy i like. i don't know if he likes me but my friend told him i like him. i never said anything. i did find out that they do im each other and talk about me. she said he will ask me out but i don't know. then he finally asked me out. i said yes. the next day i found him making out with my sister. i walked over to him and i said excuse me? then he ran away. we havn't spoken for 3 days. what should i do? i am 15 and a female. please help me.

wOw. what a jerk !! i mean serioualy. i know i`m only 14, but if you ask me, i think he was only getting with you so he could get close to your sister.. sorry. To make ya feel better tho, he`s to much of a pussy to stand up to you and admit what he did wrong, instead he just ran away like a coward. haha !! But anyways, call him, or find a way to talk to him about the whole situation and if it goes well and he has a decient reason, maybe he deserves a second chance, but that is totally up to you !! well good luck with all of that !
xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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ok...about how old do girls normally stop growing....im 13 and im 5 feet 1 inch and my boobs are really small!

hun, you have a while to go. Girls don`t usually stop growing until about the age of 16.. your boobs will grow, trust me. My best friend, she is 15 and is still 5`1''.. so your not the only one. you will grow, and your boobs will grow.. just be patient and give it time. hope i helped.
xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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i'm almost 15 and a female, he just turned 16 and a male.

i was in love with a terrific guy. we broke up... because of distance. he lived hours from me, and i guess we couldn't "date". i think if we were living you know in a area together, we would still be together. i think he still has feelings for me, and i know that because some of my friends have asked him, and he says i'm the most amazing girl he's ever met... and that meant a lot to me. do you think there's a way we could get together again? i love him, he's my first love, and i haven't been able to let another guy love me. he was so amazing and my life was perfect with him... i want him again. do you guys have any suggestions how i can tell him... and really find out if he still is in love with me. both of us haven't had a relationship since. it's been about 9 months since we broke up...well 9 on the 22nd. So I really need help, I'm confused.

I'll rate 5's

aww.. long distance relationship`s are hard, but.. the heart see`s no miles. So if you love him, and he loves you.. then i think that it would work out just fine. As long as you have faith in eachother and an honest relationship.. where you keep in touch almost 24-7.. you`ll be fine. Some day, sit down with him, or even call him, and just tell him everything.. all of your feelings that you have been feeling since you split apart.. and i mean everything, don`t be shy.. that show`s him how much you really care and want to try and make this relationship work out.. even if there are a few miles between you guys. good luck and i hope i helped a lil` bit!!
xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks

wOw.. i`m the same age as you and just about a year or so ago i was in your same situation. Yes, do get help. it will be better for you and for your life. if you don`t, things could just get worse and things could go further where they become lifethreatening. Please get help and don`t hurt yourself. If you don`t necessarily wanna tell your parents, then go to a counsilor or a trusted adult or friend.. that`s what i did. You tell them everything and they keep the things you say, to themselves if you want them too. They will only tell your parents the things you want them to know. but please, be careful and get help. i know i did, and i`m glad i did. my life is soo much better now that i got help. good luck !!
xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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well ok so last month i was only on my period for 1 day, and it was light, and then this month it was still really light and only for 2 days, is that normal...or is somethig worng?

Hmm.. this is a new one.. are you eating right? Because if your body is unhealthy or being starved, your cycle tend to get messed up. The same thing happens if you are on birth control.. that`s all i can say, otherwise, if it continues to happen, go and see a doctor because something serious could be wrong. good luck !!
xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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my problem is that i havent had too many steady boyfriends, but i don't really consider the guys at my school datable because it's a rather small school. i would like to have a boyfriend, but i think i have high standards to be met. i can't drive on my own yet either, which makes it even more difficult. how do i go about meeting a new guy, maybe even one from another schooll. thanx!

15/f

It is hard to meet new guys, i agree, especially when you are in a small school. Lots of guys tend to be immature.. girls mature faster than boys, and most girls want a mature boyfriend, which is one of the main reason`s why it is hard to find a guy that meets your standards.

A good way of meeting new guys from different schools is through friends or relatives. If you have any friends that go to a different school, ask them if they can help you meet new people, same with the relatives, like cousins for instance.


good luck and i hope i helped !!

xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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Where is a good place to buy spermicide?

You can buy condoms with spermicide in them at any local drug store, like CVS for instance. Trust me, i know, i practically make my boyfriend buy spermicide condoms. haha. but yeah, at any local convinence store they sell them. They make tons of different kinds so choose the one that`s best for you.
xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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ok so i cut, so obviously im depressed. i cant decide if i should go to a psychologist and have them give me anti-depressants, or if i should just go to our family doctor and get some from him. what do you think? i dont want my parents in the same room as me if i went to the doctor, so how would i do that? id feel bad if i said i dont want my parents to come in, but is that what im supposed to do? is the doctor going to ask me questions? and would i have to show him my cuts? their really teeny and a little red, so they really arent that noticable, but would he still give me anti-depressants? im not wanting anti-depressants just for my cutting, i am depressed so i have other problems other than cutting. thank youuuu

I can relate to your situation very easily, simply because i used to be the same exact way. It all depends on if YOU want help, which hopefully you do.. The doctors will give you anit-depressants if you are depressed to the point where you are thinking of doing something that could cause you your life. The doctors will make you show them your cuts.. but they will speak with you alone if that is how you want it. Don`t feel bad, most people feel more comfortable without their parents in the room, i know i did. The doctor will ask you question to find out how serious your depression is and how far you are going to take the whole situation before something lifetaking happens. i hope i can be of some help, i have tons more advice on this subject, so if you need it, i`m here. good luck !!

xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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ok well 've never been tanning before like in a booth but i'd like to try it but i dont know what to wear can sombody please tell me?

I go tanning in the nude because i have 3 different bathingsuits that i wear during the summer, so i want an all over tan. But it depends on the kind of tan you want ! You can wear a bikini, bra and underwear, or nothing ! if you have more than one bathing suit, i sugest that you wear nothing, so you don`t have 2 different tan lines from the bathingsuits.. because even tho you do tan in a bed, if you go out in the sun, it will still leave tan lines from your clothes or bathing suits, depending on how long your out in the sun and how hot it is. good luck !!

xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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a few days ago, my friend slept over at my house. she's worried about me because she thinks im starving myself!! i dont eat breakfast ; ususally have a pop tart or a bagel for lunch ; and mostly crackers for dinner. i dont think im starving myself.. but she does and my other friends are seeing it too. what do u think? im scared.. i dont want to be starved. please help .. ill rate high for good answers!!

I used to do the same thing, and to me, it wasn`t starving myself..

breakfast? well a lot of people skip breakfast simply because they don`t have time for it or they sleep right through it. Breakfast just keeps the brain going and give it more knoledge for throughout the day.

you could have a slow dygestion system, which makes your body feel fuller throughout the day than what normal people`s do.. or maybe you drink a lot of water? that also causes you not to be as hungry when it comes to your meals.

either way, you are not starving yourself, unless you are purpusly trying too.. but you said yourself that your not.. so you aren`t!!

xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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i need help going on a diet and losing weight.
ive tried everything! lol
i excersize, go to gyms..dance..swim..a bunch of stuff..n it hasnt seem to work.
does anyone know a good diets/excersize plans that can help?

I`ve been in your situation not to long ago.. just don`t take the path that i took with the whole thing. Drink lots of water and watch what you eat. Cut down on your meals. and get maybe a half an hour to an hour of exercise each day. that will help build your body and keep you healthy. Drink water with each meal, it will help to make your body fuller so you don`t eat as much. slowly your body will cut down on foods and you will be eating less than what you were before, which will also help you lose weight.

xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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Im am an 18 year old female and my girlfriend is 19 and going off to college an hr away. She will also be participating in basketball too. She thinks it will be the same but I know it wont be. For the first couple weeks it will but when basketball starts it will take up more than enough time and she will be to bizzy to even call and I understand I just wish she would see my side. Plus her first year of college she had a problem with committment so I dont really know how to act now. when she was 15 min away she almost couldnt be faithful but now that an hr away what will happen? Can it work or will my heart be broken?

Have faith in her. if she doesn`t call you, then call her. But respect the fact that she is trying to make something out of her life and doing what she loves. if you love her, you would want to see her happy and i`m sure she would feel the same about you. Give it time, and see how things go the first few weeks, or months.. if you see a change, sit down with her and talk about it, tell her that you feel that things between you`s are changing now that she has started something new. I`m sure she will understand, and if she really loves you, she will respect your feelings and hopefully try harder to keep your relationship a healthy and trustworthy one.

xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?

rate high

hmmm.. trust is a big thing in friendship. I`d say, talk to her.. ask her why she told other people when you told her not to.. tell her how you feel about her and your friendship now that she betrayed you like that. She made one mistake, but i don`t think that you should end your friendship over it. but that is totally your dicision. Give it time, regain your trust and if she messes up again, then i would rethink your friendship with her.


xOox -- x3iLOVExoHiM

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